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Getting in during my time, and now, is monumentally intensive. I started prepping over an hour/day every day in phy/chem/math from about 9th std - at that time we graduated after 11th and the degree was 5 years. Once in, even though the course load was generally higher than in the US, I don’t think too many classmates felt the pace was that rough. </p>
<p>The cultural difference was this - we had accepted (and enjoyed) the fact that we would spend a lot of time after class reading up and discussing classwork. I don’t recall a single student who held a job or had to juggle schedules and put in late nights working at the equivalent of pizza places - we led very shielded lives. There were exactly two females in our graduating class and I would estimate a huge majority of us never dated even once in those five years, so the issues and drama involving relationships didn’t exist. I’m sure this has changed because there are significantly more females now. Still, for most of us this was one of the best eras of our lives, and we graduated with outstanding mathematical foundations in our disciplines. </p>
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Firstly, let’s discount the education that the <em>average</em> Indian student is given - it will be considered unacceptable in any Western country.</p>
<p>It may be worthwhile comparing someone from a middle or upper-middle class city setting there with what you get in the US. - For younger kids here, if you just sat back and took was dished out, some of what the kids will receive will be below par. But the biggest factor is that in the US, there is simply <em>so</em> much opportunity for a motivated kid and an involved parent. You have the opportunities involving people skills, growing up, leadership, etc. that most will accept the US is quite adequate in. When you look at STEM, generally considered a weakness, there is still so much opportunity:</p>
<p>We had a variety of off-class programs for gifted kids from elementary school upwards where the child could go deeper into a subject than any of his teachers. Between the various olympiads, inter-school bees, science fairs and presentations, there were weeks where my kids were more out of class than in. A slacker in the US however would be allowed to remain so unlike a lot of “tigering” for such a kid there that would perhaps get the baseline up.</p>
<p>Independent of school there are resources like AoPS [Art</a> of Problem Solving](<a href=“http://www.artofproblemsolving.com/]Art”>http://www.artofproblemsolving.com/) or the MIT open courseware lectures such as:
[MIT</a> OpenCourseWare | Physics | 8.01 Physics I: Classical Mechanics, Fall 1999 | Home](<a href=“http://ocw.mit.edu/courses/physics/8-01-physics-i-classical-mechanics-fall-1999/]MIT”>http://ocw.mit.edu/courses/physics/8-01-physics-i-classical-mechanics-fall-1999/)
There’re contests like Matchcounts for the younger ones and AMCs, AIMEs, and ARML
<a href=“http://www.lehigh.edu/~dmd1/arml.html[/url]”>http://www.lehigh.edu/~dmd1/arml.html</a> that brought together the top math students in the country. DS would attend practice sessions that I would help out in that would get fifty plus kids (some as young as 7th grade) who showed up on Sunday afternoons for no credit or grades, tackling problems like: <a href=“http://arml.com/2011_Contest/2011_contest_entire_draft_v1.1.pdf[/url]”>http://arml.com/2011_Contest/2011_contest_entire_draft_v1.1.pdf</a>
These far exceeded I have ever had - but here it was, available for free. (The thing these darned American kids haven’t been taught is to be absolutely respectful to their elderly - I would be challenged by some precocious 9th grade kid who would then proceed to pulverize me in a discrete math problem
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<p>College here is the same way. The internships that DD and DS got here all the way from freshman summer, the real-world technical and people-experience and money, were absolutely unbelievable. I don’t know how it’s in India today, but other than the uber-connected classmates, none of us set foot in any real-world project throughout our five years in a top notch school. I still smile at some of the discussions DS and I had about some EE concept where I would dwell on the beauty of some mathematical fundas governing it, while he would just proceed and solve the actual problem.</p>
<p>I thought most of us did exceptionally well in our initial techie-intensive jobs, and some of us were flexible enough to grow into senior management, while many like myself never rose above a 30-employee or so position, or stayed in academia in large numbers. People skills, risk taking, project management, the ability to sell your ideas, etc. matter more in the long run than the areas we focussed on. </p>
<p>Overall, a great experience and fond memories for me, but the western setting is probably better for my kids.</p>