@scambledegg For some reason (I’m not sure why) but based on what you said about your son I keep thinking about St. John’s College for him. It’s a very, very unique college – completely a “fit” school – where the curriculum is “great books” based and all seminar-based (I think). Two campuses – Annapolis and Santa Fe. I think the kids can choose one or switch between them. Both the state capitols of their respective states, so great for kids who like politics. Despite the name, the college has no religious affiliation.
Anyway, just wanted to throw it out there as something to consider.