The helpful @Golfgr8 shares this advice (which I believe she got from a Hotchkiss revisit, but I’m not sure). But it is true: You are not sending your kids to a school; you are sending your kids to people.
And it was a useful thing to consider when we were deciding which school to choose last March.
The past few days have been HARD on DD2. School is doing all the right things, but pandemic quarantine challenges are wearing her down.
She kept asking me for two of her favorite comfort foods. Both are fresh food items (a vegetable and a fruit) and I thought: surely once she can go to the dining hall next week, she will get her fill. Knowing that we (parents) were told not to send perishables to the kids during covid times, I reached out to our AO, who has become a friend over the past 6 months. I asked if DD could somehow make a dining hall request, or would Amazon fresh be allowed for a delivery since it was produce, so not super perishable.
Not a half hour later, I received a text back from the AO. She was at the grocery store and wanted to know exactly what DD2 was craving. About a half hour after that, she texted me a picture of my DD2 smiling through her mask, holding up the groceries.
It didn’t matter that there was totally a more “official” way of her getting her request handled. Our AO made her feel so loved and seen, and within an hour of DD feeling lost and helpless stuck in her dorm, she got a surprise delivery that told her she mattered to them.
@Golfgr8 has said a number of times: when you have a problem and you are 2500 miles away, who are you going to call, and who will pick up, and how will they help?
THIS is exactly why I can even sleep at night. Because of the people who are caring for my DD.
(PS. I know that I won’t always be pleased with every single thing that happens at my kid’s schools. But for this one day, this is exactly the reassurance we needed.)
I would love to hear other stories of the people in your schools going above and beyond. I love a story of joy.