<p>Spondee: But a good indie boy would know that the new BE albums are already out. And I don't think indie boy is a good term--more like scene kid. Or hipster. Everything that was considered indie a year ago is pretty mainstream now. I mean, DCFC is signed to Atlantic. Conor Oberst is everywhere. I can't really call my musical tastes "indie" anymore.</p>
<p>I'm really 35 years after my time...</p>
<p>amen to that. the 60s and 70s were awesome and I think that my supposed to be soulmate was there, so now here I am stuck! a girl out of time...... :)</p>
<p>"My love life is terrible. The last time I was inside a woman was when I visited the Statue of Liberty." </p>
<p>That kind of sums it up.</p>
<p>Bright Eyes is still "indie" in the sense that they're on Saddle Creek. And if you're looking to like a band that'll never be mainstream, check out Coco Rosie... those crazy Frenchies are way out there.</p>
<p>Complaining about how boys are stupid, mean, immature jerks has never gotten anyone a boyfriend, as far as I know. As a guy, I consider man-hating a turn on, but you know, tastes differ.</p>
<p>my story:</p>
<p>got rejected 5 times before I got my first gf.
haha.</p>
<p>=D</p>
<p>so guys, dont worry if u keep getting rejected.
If you keep askin the girls out, youll get a yes eventually.
i cant guarantee itll last long if ur a jerk or have poor hygene, but...good luck</p>
<p>my story:</p>
<p>I was born with awesome genes. The rest, as they say, is history =D</p>
<p>I've had a few boyfriends, mostly middle-school silliness. When I started debate in freshman year, I got hit on with alarming frequency by some very, well, geeky boys... I guess I'm reassuringly nerdy looking, which means that I'm easily approachable, without being entirely repulsive or aloof. </p>
<p>Starting dating my current boyfriend (a lovable computer geek) the summer after freshman year. It's been... oh, 2.5 years now.</p>
<p>I have never ever had a single GF in my life. </p>
<p>Once someone from an MMORPG asked me to be her BF. Of course I declined. Also, I have quit playing that MMORPG for unrelated reasons.</p>
<p>There is some real sadness in this thread...</p>
<p>haha my love life is full of drama</p>
<p>ok...
I used to HATE my bf he was a JERK well...one day I got an email from him apologizing for being such a jerk and we started talking...then we started hanging out and then we started dating in secret for like two weeks...only two people knew lol...well after we "came out" it was great we hung out constantly etc. etc. we dated about six months and then my mom decided that she didn't like him and made up a buncha lies about how he was trying to convince me to get pregnant or run away with him and some how managed to get a judge to put a RO against him until I turn 18 :0( I still contact him everyonce in a while and we're working our way through this...I don't have to worry about him cheating on me because frankly...no one would be with him (haha that sounds bad) because we live in a small town and the people who hang out with him wouldn;t fool around with him and the people that don't hang out with him are scared of him or don't like him (he's goth) lol...but yeah...thats my romantic life</p>
<p>I don't have a romantic life, unfortunately.</p>
<p>haha that was my life for a LONG time..my current bf is my first REAL bf... :0) I love him so its all good :0)</p>
<p>lol ok here's my current story:
I've always had crushes but never anything big. I've had guys ask me out ut I've never been interested enough for a relationship.
Last year I ended up really liking a guy from this summer program we were in. Everyone said (and it seemed obvious) he liked me. We stayed in contact for a while that year, pretty much just friend type thngs though. Lost most contact after a couple months, but occaisonally still talked online.
This summer returning to the program I was hoping for things to move forward. and I kept thinking they might, even though it just didn't feel the same somehow. The last day he showed up with his girlfriend. Who he had never mentioned.
Even though most of did things together after it ended it made things pretty awkard being around him.
The other thing was not only did we find out he never mentioned the girlfriend, he had also lied about his age (told me he was 16 two summers in a row) and several other things(like the stories he made up about why he couldn't drive which ended up only being because he was 15 the first year).</p>
<p>yeah, if anyone understands that paragraph it's amazing.
lol, so that's my story so far. now if somehow someone I know happens to come on here I might just die!</p>
<p>for some reason all the boys who have had crushes on me were either socially inept or slightly creepy. oh well.</p>
<p>Exactly! that seems to be my problem! Socially inept and slightly creepy exactly describes all the guys who've tried to get me to go out with them!</p>
<p>hah what romantic life?</p>
<p>I tended to develop crushes on guys pretty easily and at most times, randomnly. They just...happened. I have this weird thing with guys. My friends told me that I flirted and acted as if I liked the guys whom I hanged out with. Unfortunately and sadly, the more comfortable I acted in front of these guys, the more friendly I felt toward them. Nothing goes beyond the border of friendship. Undeniably shy, I tend to either avoid looking at the guys I REALLY like or blush and act like I don't know them at all. :( One exception....I sent an anoynmous gift to my current crush. I couldn't smile every time I thought of his reaction when he opened it and found he had a secret admirer. Haha. sketchy but funny. I just couldn't believe I did it.</p>
<p>had the same crush on a girl from 6th to 8th grade, tried to make a few moves throughout and had a couple good conversations but i was just too socially inept/afraid to make a move.
we went to diff high schools, and i still tried despite being a complete dork. didn't work out. eventually i guess she got frustrated or something, but she just decided to make a long post on her xanga (back when everybody at school had one) about me (didn't mention my name, but everybody at school knew about it anyway so it didn't help) and talking about how awkward i was and how things wouldn't work out. in retrospect it was a terrible thing she did to me but back then i was just plain shocked and scared.</p>
<p>needless to say I became quite sad/depressed after that. things dont work out particularly well when everybody knows and asks you about it at school. </p>
<p>haven't talked to her since.</p>
<p>fast forward to 10th grade. my experience with my former crush pushed me to get more socially acceptable and I transformed myself and my apperance into somebody much more dateable. at a 10th grade summer retreat i somehow found myself the object of affection of every girl at the retreat. it was quite bizarre and jarring, but i ended up dating a girl who lived close to me, went out for 8 months, but her parents turned nazi and wouldn't let her out because she was keeping the relationship a secret from them and they found out about it. she called me and decided we had to break up because she wouldn't be able to see me anymore. it was another very sad moment, but i was able to move on. eventually.</p>
<p>that's my love life. it's been two years since, and nothing. </p>
<p>college, you cannot come fast enough....</p>
<p>I fall in like easy but it takes a while for me to fall in love...and now that im in love I don't feel the need to fall in like anymore lol</p>