<p>I' ve had a lot of guys ask me out. Some of them were friends....but I've never had a guy worth a relationship ask me out......<em>sigh</em></p>
<p>I haven't had any guys ask me out yet; my nerdiness frightens them :rolleyes: But I'm in a weird situation now:</p>
<p>I have very mixed feelings right now. I'm friends with the guy I like, but he likes my bff. He asks me once in a while if she likes him, and I always say no. You'd think I'd be heartbroken, or at least depressed. I actually feel sort of.... liberated. Weird choice of a word, yeah, but I'm having weird, mixed feelings right now. Like I don't have to care anymore.</p>
<p>:) Girl power!</p>
<p>I've been going out with a guy for 7 months. Out of the 30 guys in our grade, I'd say he's a keeeeeeper!</p>
<p>My romantic life was filled with flirting and lots of playful banter but recently it's calmed down and now it's running smooth :)</p>
<p>my romantic life
does
not
EXIST.</p>
<p>Freshman year:
Sad, sad relationship with a friend of mine. Well, I don't know if "sad" is the word....just not all that "real." He was very paranoid, and scared-showed me no physical affection at all, even though we went on dates, IMed, hung out, stuff like that. Insecure boy. And I was too paranoid to tell him that it annoyed the hell out of me, even though he was "technically" my first boyfriend. We broke up the summer before sophomore year (huge relief for me), but we remained friends. </p>
<p>Sophomore year:
I had a crush on a different guy for a long time-stereotypical "indie" kid, played the guitar, elitist, blah blah. We kissed (my first ever kiss), but it didn't really turn into a relationship. I hadn't told him how I felt...we kissed because I was complaining that I was 15, and hadn't kissed anybody yet. I think he assumed I just wanted to kiss someone:P Then I got involved with a junior (man, was he cocky:P) for a couple of weeks...that relationship was mostly physical. Near the end of that relationship, the guy I originally had a crush on told me he wanted me, and in turn, that made me want him. I was very conflicted, and didn't know whether or not to break it off with cocky guy #2. But soon enough, we did break up, and I was free to be with indie kid for about 6 months. Until he cheated on me in April. </p>
<p>Junior year:
Nothing, nothing, nothing. Until earlier this month. December 4th. Remember the dude from freshman year? Well, we had gotten to be pretty close friends, and I had developed quite a crush on him. We went to homecoming, and seemed to have lots of fun together. He had quite a bit more confidence than when we were freshman, but still seemed a bit insecure, and "un-smooth." But after spending a night cuddling and practically gazing into each other's eyes like puppy dogs, and me waiting for him to make a move...which he didn't, until the next day:P When he told me he wanted to "have a talk," and told me- "Well...sometimes I can't fall asleep at night because I can't stop thinking about you." Then I kissed him. His first ever kiss, which made me feel special :D And right now I am very happy, except he's leaving to be a foreign exchange student next year, and I don't know how i'm going to deal with that...</p>
<p>My romantic life has been non exsistant for nearly a year now. I guess I'm OK with it, but I kind of wish I had BF sometimes</p>
<p>love life? what love life? searches for a suitable guy in a five mile radius of me---no results found...i go to a private boarding school In cHina, and I'm the only person who is fluent in english and loves art so its hard...and there's only 7 guys in our grade, they're all into CS and do not get the concept of dating at all.</p>
<p>oh and they shower like what once a week</p>
<p>i've been with my bf for ten months :0)</p>
<p>I don't have a romantic life. I have never had a romantic life. I have never been kissed, been on a date, etc. Maybe I'm ugly. Or just weird, or too academically centered. I did have this crush on an online person in eighth grade, though. Which was bizarre since I never saw his picture. He was an Objectivist -- directly opposite me politically -- and had an excellent sense of humour. I don't know -- I guess I'm a bit of a nerd. When I go to college I'll try and dress more fashionably.</p>
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I don't have a romantic life. I have never had a romantic life. I have never been kissed, been on a date, etc. Maybe I'm ugly. Or just weird, or too academically centered.
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Ditto. 10 char</p>
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I don't have a romantic life. I have never had a romantic life. I have never been kissed, been on a date, etc. Maybe I'm ugly. Or just weird, or too academically centered.
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Same here.</p>
<p>(By the way, if any mods are reading this, can you delete post #131? I feel awkward having it there with so much personal information, but it's too late for me to do anything about it.)</p>
<p>yeah... I'm sort of feeling the same way.
why is it that a thread about relationship troubles can makes us all just post a bunch of personal information?</p>
<p>I decided after grad 9 I would never attempt snagging women. I have since refrained, and crush any hopes of love mercilessly as I am not exactly stable enough to be socially benign.</p>
<p>Ro...what?</p>
<p>one for 1.5 years, one for 2.875 years, a couple for .34 years, one for .91 years ongoing,
x/1 --> .67 paid models, average gpa 3.5-3.8 (x/4), 0.0 whores, .89 kinky, av iq ~115, compatability 0.01, .67 drinkers, .89 partiers, .22 nerds, my scale 9-10 on a normal scale, must be >9.8, 0.0 rejection, .44 not-so-sure, .56 perfect
intermittent period "****" buddies, .6
overall happiness, 1.0
yea, its a numbers game
yea, im a lucky guy
yea, i have high standards
yea, im a bastard</p>
<p><3 life</p>
<p>oh and theyve all been 5'5-5''6; chin height</p>
<p>you know youve really got it good when you can find a hot chick whose waist height ;-)</p>
<p>i go to a pretty academically centered school, so relationships are kind of rare. i did have a pretty newb relationhip with a newb and total wierdo. just held hands, talked, walked around during passing period, that kind of stuff. never had a date, never kissed. which was interesting cuz i asked her if she wanted to kiss she was like, my parents didnt kiss till they were 25, so im gonna do the same. i was like -__-;;</p>
<p>only lasted two months, i realized if i wasnt gonna even make first base forget it</p>
<p>I haven't had much of a romantic life in high school, and I don't plan on having one anyway, since I'll be graduating soon. There's a downside on going to a single sex school. You end up deprived of the opposite gender. Good thing we have a sister school that's single sex as well. :)</p>
<p>On the other hand, I had quite a different story in junior high. One reason why I hate complicated love dramas... I've been in one.</p>