Say it here cause you can't say it directly- the get it off your chest thread (Part 1)

i just dont get it.

she’s broken hearted; i took off work, drove 1000s of miles, held her hand and listened, helped her figure out transferring schools; she gave up her scholarship, is adding an ENTIRE extra year on to her new college program, will be taking out loans, it has scrambled our lives, and i’m paying for her therapy.

and she’s seeing him tonight because he called her. what?? after all that, are you kidding me? no no no no no.