You seem like a person who is willing to work hard and make sacrifices to not only get a job, but also to get educated.
Here are some other realistic options, based on this helpful website, which isn’t just about loans:
https://www.bankrate.com/loans/student-loans/9-ways-to-attend-college-for-free/
How about becoming an apprentice and learning a trade? Plumbers and electricians are always going to have jobs, and they earn good money. You can learn the skills needed to work as a plumber for a few years, for example, and save enough money to pay for transferring into a four year college. You could still attend community college classes too, while working.
Or regroup for the next application cycle and apply to one of the work colleges. Berea College is well regarded.
https://workcolleges.org/member-colleges
Apply to one of the service academies for next year. The apps are a lot of work, and you will need very good recommendations. Start doing some research now. But a degree from a service academy will set you up for life, and even though you are committed to serving time in the military after, my understanding is that you are more likely to be doing behind the scenes jobs.
Unless you start community college in the Fall, you are looking at a way to live for another year. Who knows what the job market will be like for the rest of the year. Be open to considering any kind of work, even if it’s just doing deliveries. If you do start CC, remember that the best scholarships are given to entering freshmen. Once you start any kind of college, you are no longer a freshman, but a transfer student.