A Dilemma

<p>Lately, I’ve been stuck debating this issue. More and more people are telling me that “undergraduate doesn’t matter,” and for at least the first two years, all college freshmen are taking the same exact level one courses, no matter how difficult it was for one to get into a particular school. Many people, including this year’s valedictorian, are staying in state. (Here, most kids get paid to stay in state, as much as $11,000 per year). I have some schools that I am looking at—some a little farfetched (Stanford, Yale), and some that are a “match” (BU, UT Austin). If I go to those schools, I will undoubtedly graduate in debt, while if I stay in-state I would probably end up with a hefty bank account. BUT:
If I stay in-state, I will end up in the same playing field as those kids who slacked off in high school and couldn’t apply anywhere else. I would feel that all my “extra” efforts would have been futile--all the hours I never slept, all the extra work I put in, all the weekends I sacrificed…
There is a certain prestige of going to a well-reputed university. All the kids are talented, driven, and certainly motivated to succeed. I would have satisfaction in knowing that my hard work has paid off, but in the long run, will elitism have an effect on how I’ll end up? Would it truly matter?
I’ve been reading books like Harvard Schmarvard by Jay Monahan and I want to believe that I can be successful after going to a state school (there certainly have been people) but isn’t Monahan’s words more credible because HE himself graduated from Harvard? His book would not have been as successful if he was a non-Harvard graduate scorning an ivy league school. </p>

<p>What are your thoughts on this? Why are you staying in-state? (Do you mind at all that you’re staying in-state?) Or, why are you going out of state? What should I do?</p>

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<p>There is nothing wrong with staying in state. There are many financial reasons for doing so, and I have several friends at state schools in NY who really like it. They are doing well academically and like living at home.</p>

<p>But do not buy into the "undergraduate doesn't matter" state of mind. It's blatantly untrue. Of course it matters or people wouldn't do it. The college you go to is not the end-all of your life, but it would be absurd to think that someone with Harvard on their resume does not have an advantage, applying to both jobs and grad schools. It is possible to compensate for a lesser known undergraduate institution, but it takes work!</p>

<p>Hope that helps :)</p>

<p>Thanks athenaNY. Haha, its probably okay to stay in state in New York, but I live in New Mexico! LoL</p>

<p>Haha well I may live in NY, but I grew up on eastern Long Island, which is by no means thrilling. ;) I think the same can apply to anyone. Some people are happy staying in a familiar surrounding (be it NY or NM), and there are benefits. Others choose to leave. I go to school in NH, and I love it!</p>