Here are my ‘23 kid’s results with the COA to us, with the caveat that there were certain limited, selective institutional scholarships that she may or may not have gotten.
My daughter got into her first choice, early action, so she did not continue with regular decision or pursue selective scholarships at the schools she had already gotten into early action.
First, here are a few things we learned either from this Facebook group and other groups or from experience.
- Apply to at least one rolling school that releases decisions early.
- If a school says that it considers demonstrated interest, and you do not demonstrate interest, do not be surprised if you end up waitlisted or rejected.
- If you apply EA to a school that has 2 ED rounds, do not be surprised if you are deferred.
- Colleges have their own priorities. That doesn’t mean it is rigged or unfair or someone else got your kid’s spot. Any given kid could have different results in a different year. Be enthusiastic and authentic and have a balanced list…and visit (if possible) and show some love to those targets/likelies. This way, the kid hopefully has at least one option they like.
- People often assume they will not get need-based financial aid. Do not assume. Run the NPC. They are not always accurate, but they usually give you a ballpark if your info you input is accurate. Sometimes an expensive, 100% meets needs, high-endowment university is the cheapest, even if you are middle class…if you can get in.
- Most of the time, your in-state (or consortium), non-flagship public is your cheapest option, followed by your in-state flagship or an OOS that has in-state tuition matching. Small private colleges that are not as well known also sometimes offer great value.
- The pickier you are, the more you can expect to pay (if you truly are not getting need-based aid). If you want a highly ranked university (and I am not even talking T25, more like ~T100), in a nice city, with a decent campus, in the Northeast, that offers tons of merit, you are hunting for a unicorn. There are some of these schools that have a handful of full tuition scholarships, but you cannot rely on getting these.
- Application burnout is real. Start as early as possible, and try to prioritize the ones you care about most, even if you hold off on actually submitting until closer to the deadline. And watch out for “hidden essays” if you are submitting a portfolio.
- We had a hard time balancing the “there are no real safeties for a highly impacted major” with the above “application burnout.” In hindsight, my kid may have overapplied, but we really were not sure where she would get in and where she would get merit.
- Even if you get into your top choice EA and can afford it, submit 1-3 more RD apps. While I am 99.9% sure the result would have been the same, in retrospect my kid feels like she would have liked to have explored at least one more option… even though she was admitted to her top choice that she had visited multiple times.
- If you are receiving significant need-based aid from the university, chances are it will absorb outside scholarships. You need to check with each school to see if scholarships will stack or if you can at least use the scholarships for the student contribution or books or a computer purchase.
Basic demographics: White female; middle class; suburban NY; typical, average suburban public school
Planned major: computer science
4.0 UW, 4.52 W (estimated as school uses a 100 pt scale, not a 4.0), all honors or AP where possible; 2/198 (but only knew “top decile” when applying)
APs (All 5’s): CS A, Bio, WH, Calc BC, Physics 1, US, Lang and Comp; this year enrolled in Chem, Psych, Lit, Gov
Also took Multivariable Calc and Linear Algebra online, with As in each
SAT: 1590 (800 M, 790 V)
NMF
Good (but not mind-blowing) ECs in STEM and music (e.g. “Programming Captain of FRC Team”), volunteer service (including what you would call a “passion project”) and essays; some awards; two summer research programs (one very well-known); NO sports at all
I am intentionally not getting too specific about the ECs because an exact clone of my kid might have completely different results in another year. There is no replicable formula.
Accepted (COA is our Net Cost—several of these had additional scholarships or NMF that she did not pursue):
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MIT, EA, COA $20K - COMMITTED
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Stony Brook, In-State, WISE honors program; initial -$3K Merit. COA = <$25K? (Unsure because WISE, NMF, and valedictorian/salutatorian scholarships may have reduced price but unclear by how much; website is vague on the details.)
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Binghamton, In-State, EA, Invited to FRI (First Year Research Immersion) + Scholars program with one-time research stipend of $3500. COA = ~$28K
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RPI, EA, -$42K Merit. COA = $35K
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UMASS Amherst, OOS, EA, honors, -$16K Merit; COA = $38K (invitation to apply for an additional $10K a year for women in STEM but did not pursue)
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Drexel, EA, -$36K (22K scholarship + 14K Need-Based Grant), COA = $39K (did not pursue honors or additional scholarships)
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Northeastern, EA - Honors with Global Experience Stipend; $25.5K Merit (may have been bumped up to $28K for NMF?); never got need-based offer despite multiple phone calls so COA = as high as $56K but likely would have been lower. Our NPC said $38K…but who knows?
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UMD, OOS, EA, Advanced Cybersecurity Experience for Students (ACES) Honors College, -$12K Merit. COA = $43K
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UPitt, Rolling, OOS, GAP, Honors, -$15K merit. COA = $43K
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WPI, EA -$27.5 K (25K Merit + 2.5 K Grant). COA = $49K (did not pursue limited additional scholarships)
Deferred:
U Chicago, EA, withdrew application
Waitlisted:
BU, RD (but met their scholarship earlier deadline), declined place on waitlist
Planned to Apply but did not:
Harvard RD
Princeton RD
Yale RD
Carnegie Mellon RD
Brown RD
Harvey Mudd RD
Stanford RD