adding girl to facebook (clarification of facebook friend post )

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<p>i recently posted about the how long it takes for someone to accept a friend request on facebook. </p>

<p>I was talking to a girl a couple days ago and asked for her facebook. She seemed pretty enthusiastic about it and told me what her picture was in order for me to find the right person. </p>

<p>I waited a day and a half before requesting to be her friend. However, its been 3 days and she hasn't accepted yet so i'm getting concerned. When would it be ok to send her a message? </p>

<p>Yes, i'm expecting people to make fun of me...BUT this is something that does not happen to me too often which is why i'm still thinking about it.</p>

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<p>Sending her a message would be strange IMO. Just let it go. Maybe she’s, oh I don’t know, busy?</p>

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<p>Don’t send her a message, that would be kinda weird. The fact that she described her profile picture says that she wanted you to find and add her. She probably hasn’t logged on yet or forgot.</p>

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<p>sending her a message would give off the impression your obessesing over her. Don’t do it man. Have you had class with her/ talked to her during it recently? cause maybe she forgot who you were</p>

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<p>send her a dic k pic bro. she wants it</p>

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<p>I wouldn’t worry about it, people can be weird about Facebook sometimes. One time, I met this girl, and she specifically told me to add her on facebook. So I did the next day, and it took her a year and a half to add me.</p>

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<p>a year and a half??? wow that is rough.</p>

<p>No, i don’t actually have class with this girl. I was buying shoes and she was working at the store so she was helping me. We got talking about other stuff as well, she’d asked me for how much money i had in savings…i told her my salary and she seemed quite impressed. Thats why i’m surprised she hasn’t added me yet, its been 5 days.</p>

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<p>Maybe she found someone with a higher salary.</p>

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<p>***? why would you tell a stranger how much money you make/save?</p>

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<p>Weird thread is weird.</p>

<p>Or would be if it was anywhere other than CC.</p>

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<p>Watch him make another thread in a few days asking again…</p>

<p>Seriously, stop obsessing over someone you barely know. It’s creepy.</p>

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<p>Not sure if trolling, or really that dumb to think it’s a good idea to tell someone their salary.</p>

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<p>Omg, funny post. Lol </p>

<p>Bro, seriously, why would you want to befriend a stranger, especially when you only had a brief talk with her?</p>

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<p>well…it was actually a pretty long chat, maybe like 40minutes?</p>

<p>she seemed interested in finding more about me. She said i seemed like a ‘really nice guy’ and was flipping her hair back a lot. As you might be able to tell, i’m not great with girls so i actually really got my hopes up for her.</p>

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<p>Why didn’t you just ask for her number? Also, it’s probably not a good signal that she’s asking how much you have in the bank, unless she made it clear she was joking.</p>

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<p>you’re right, now that i look back at it, i think asking her number would have been the better option. I figured it wouldn’t really matter cause i thought she’d just accept my facebook add and then we’d chat via facebook.</p>

<p>No…it was not particularly clear that she was kidding…in fact she was a bit pushy about it.</p>

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<p>Isn’t that a pretty clear warning sign…?</p>

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<p>Thermo, don’t sell yourself short. If someone asks you how much money you have/make it is clear that’s what they are interested in, not you.</p>

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<p>Look at all this guy’s posts… It’s just his gimmick.</p>

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<p>Seems as though she has finer tastes, but is on a retail wage budget, so she’s looking for someone to “date” to get ahead. Definitely steer clear of women like this.</p>