<p>I would see how she does.</p>
<p>Send her to a school where she can get a lot of personal attention and help (that means a small LAC with strong personal development programs, great community, a free individual tutoring program, small classes, understanding instructors, personable TAs, possibly some flexible restrictions on living areas, understanding and cooperative administrators...)</p>
<p>As far as the 5-yr plan goes, I would try to avoid that via summer school if necessary, since a 5th yr will be quite expensive no matter where you go (summer school is oftentimes cheaper at any school since there is generally less demand for those classes).
If it's necessary, she'll know soon enough as 15-18 units will be too difficult. I would start her w/ 15 units for the first semester and see how she does. If she ends up dropping a class, you'll know she needs to take things a bit more slowly, but if she can keep up, then you'll know she's doing well and will likely only need 4 yrs.</p>
<p>As far as services go, it really depends on the university.
We offer a free writing center, free individual tutoring, CLEP testing, special adapations and accomodations of subjects/requirements/syllabi for learning disabilities (with a dr's note brought into the Learning Enrichment Center, the LEC will write a letter to all of your professors asking them to make changes in requirements, give extensions, etc. as needed; specifically, one student I had in a class I TA was given several additional weeks for assignments, including the final exam), personal mentoring, support through multiple offices that directly target students like your daughter (the Learning Enrichment Center, the Office of Student Success, the Office of Student Life, the Office of Career Services, to name a few)</p>
<p>As far as do's and don't's are concerned, I'm not entirely sure what you mean...
Do seek help
Don't be arrogant or unapproachable
Do be gracious when people ask questions
Don't turn away those who want to help you
Do show people who you are</p>
<p>I'm not really sure what you're asking! If you're a little more specific, I'd be more than happy to give you better suggestions!</p>
<p>I am personally a tutor in our LEC as well as a TA, so I know the tutoring works well. Students who've been tutored (and not just by me) have said it's gone well and helped them. I will probably be getting some tutoring soon to help get my Spanish back up to the fluency level I need in order to CLEP out of my foreign language requirement.</p>
<p>You might want to call a few colleges' learning enrichment offices and get some ideas for resources to try. After calling a few of them, I'm sure you'll start to catch some common threads!</p>