<p>"I must admit that I don't understand the mystery to the whole college admission process. My daughter went 6/6 on her applications, including her top two; Stanford and Virginia, and her backups; Cornell, Wash U., Banard and Rice."</p>
<p>If your D and you are saying things like this to friends, your statement -- which lacks empathy for people who weren't as fortunate as your D when it came to admission -- is fueling the negative comments that your D is getting.</p>
<p>You seem to be implying that your D got all of her acceptances because she's either extremely smart and deserving or she was able to figure out how to game an easy system. Such implications are likely to raise the hackles of acquaintacnes and friends who weren't as fortunate. Also, the system is not as easy to figure out as you seem to think it is. Take a close look at the admissions results that many have posted on CC and you'll see that many apparently deserving students got inexplicable rejections.</p>