<p>For many months I have been reading posts on this forum, and having just read the thread entitled "Stanford Deferral Numbers Don't Add Up," I have concluded that the Stanford admissions office is far from transparent, and is sometimes misleading. I know that life is not fair, but I expect honesty from an institution like Stanford.</p>
<p>Two years ago my daughter applied SCEA. My H and I are both legacies, and she was far more qualified than either of us had been. D's GPA was 4.5, top 3 percent of her large class. SAT single sitting 2240, superscore 2330. SAT II: math 2 - 800, physics -760, Spanish - 740. She was a 12 letter, 3 sport athlete, with all-league honors in all three sports, and was captain of all her teams senior year. She had a sectional rating in tennis and played on an elite travel soccer team. She also had 800 service hours, was president of a major school-community organization, was involved in several other school clubs, and played the piano and cello at a very high level. She had jobs in retail and tutoring, and spent her summers in meaningful ways (including Stanford's EPGY summer program). We thought she was a strong candidate for Stanford, especially with a legacy boost. Once I discovered CC, I knew that she was an average candidate at best, but her SAT scores and EC's were still above average. We had been told that if other things were equal, a legacy candidate would be selected; and we had received the form letter from admissions advising us that legacy candidates were admitted at twice the rate of all applicants.</p>
<p>Initially, D was deferred, and invited to submit supplemental information. She carefully submitted additional information: NMS finalist, winner of two essay contests ($5000 and $1000 prizes), many sports awards and honors, distinction in piano competitions, etc. Also perfect grades in all AP classes. D was rejected in the RD round. She was very sad.</p>
<p>Then she learned that a classmate (5 percent lower class rank, 300+ points lower SAT, weak EC's) had been admitted. Although this young woman is African-American, my D has much darker skin (H is mostly Greek and I am half Chinese). D knew and liked the girl, and understands the importance of diversity. She was happy her classmate had been admitted.</p>
<p>Then a girl (white) we know from a neighboring town was admitted from the waiting list. This student had a lower GPA, significantly lower SAT scores, and almost no EC's. Her mother told me that the admissions representative for our area is Jewish, and that probably gave her child a boost. I have never heard that from anyone else. Before this student was offered a spot at Stanford, her best alternative was our state flagship university -- where she hadn't even been admitted to the honors college. D had been admitted to the honors college of this state school, as well as to Cornell, Duke, Cal, UCLA, UCSD, Northwestern, Chicago, and UVA. She was wait-listed by Harvard and rejected by Princeton.</p>
<p>For the first time in the process, we felt screwed. Why hadn't D at least been wait-listed like the other girl from our geographic reason? Not one to sit around and stew (like me), my H called Stanford to ask why our D hadn't been wait-listed. He was told that Stanford has a long-standing policy of never evaluating an application more than twice. No candidate is ever deferred and then wait-listed. H asked why this policy existed, since a student would obviously rather be wait-listed than rejected, and he was told that it was a long-standing policy. He asked where that policy was published, and of course the "alumni liaison" had no answer. This is when I became bitter.</p>
<p>I scoured CC pages in an attempt to understand where D was lacking. I saw that Stanford, unlike its peers, accepts more men than women. Unlike its peers in their respective states, Stanford accepts a disproportionate number of California residents (we are OOS). Unlike Cal, UCLA, MIT, and Cal Tech, Stanford seems to actively discriminate against Asians. Like all of these schools, Stanford has far more qualified applicants than spaces to fill.</p>
<p>I am a very good loser. My problem with Stanford is that admissions is not completely honest. For example, saying that legacies are admitted at "roughly" twice the rate of all applicants is a misleading statistic. How Stanford legacies compare with Cal or Harvard legacies would be a more meaningful measurement. Many candidates aren't serious -- they are just throwing up hail mary passes. It is not true that if other things are equal the legacy will be admitted -- this is obvious from published statistics. It is misleading to act as if deferred candidates are considered equally with the regular decision pool, when in fact they are segregated and treated differently -- with no chance of being wait-listed. It is wrong to fail to tell candidates that if they apply SCEA, and are borderline candidates, they are forfeiting their chance to be admitted from the wait-list -- which is used every year. Finally, it's wrong to actively discriminate against Asians, using "holistic" review as an excuse for racial discrimination.</p>
<p>I wish my neighbor hadn't been admitted. I still loved Stanford until that happened and I was forced to take a closer look at Stanford's admissions practices. Without consulting me, H recently wrote a $2000 check to Stanford. I would not have agreed with this expenditure, even though our S intends to apply next year. I hope some students will learn from our mistakes. If I am wrong to be bitter, please tell me why. I hope I am wrong. By the way, D is very happy and doing well at her school. Thanks to everyone who shares their information on this forum.</p>