You all make some great points and I do think I need to reconsider as @fogcity said… It seems what I am looking for does not really align with my own personal values. Although I do find the idea of Middle America interesting in an anthropological way, I do not feel I would necessarily fit in. Let me reply to you individually.
@50N40W: Albuquerque looks a lovely town and I am not too concerned of its isolation. As you say in a later post, there is an Amtrak station there which can take me to other cities (even if the journey time is long). I have considered writing my dissertation of US-Mexico foreign relations, so ABQ may be a good choice if I go down that route. However, I do not think it is for me. Thanks
@exacademic: I would be fine with a very white perspective on America. It would be nice to get some diversity but it’s not a make-or-break criterion.
@SouthernHope: UNC is the only university my home uni is partnered with but thanks for the suggestions.
@SouthFloridaMom9: So many people are suggesting UNC that I am going to research it far more. You make a good case! Thanks for your response
@proudterrier: Your post was of great value and definitely helped me reconsider! However, Hawaii does not interest me at all (except for holidays ;))
@PurpleTitan: Thanks for your responses! There is a lot of tension between what I want and what I dislike politically and in terms of religion.
@katliamom: Thanks! Great points. Transportation seems like it will swing my decision to a more Eastern locale.
@thisdudehere: Thank you for your reply. It was very enlightening. May I ask why you disliked the South? I have never visited but I have always had a rose tinted view of it based on literature and the whole concept of the South being the friendliest region, etc. I will definitely avoid southern schools like Ole Miss for your reasoning
@collegemom3717: Thanks. I am aware there are Amtrak stations in both Lawrence and Norman, but never considered transport around the town itself. I am underestimating the size of these college towns.
@twoinanddone: Thanks! Wyoming isn’t a partner unfortunately
@gradygrad: I meant the university is too small (under 3,000) not the town I will reconsider but I am worried liberal arts colleges will be too cliquey when I arrive and I will find it hard to make friends.
@fogcity: Your post made me reconsider my priorities. I seem to be getting caught up in the whole romanticism of American colleges stemming from movies, etc. which is shallow. I should focus on what is best for me academically and financially opposed to socially.
In light of this reconsideration:
- I am now looking at schools in the East Coast. Will schools like George Mason still be as obsessed with frats and sport as you say Midwestern/Southern colleges are?
- Are liberal arts colleges any more cliquey than state schools? I went to a sixth form college in the UK that had 2,000 students and had a horrible experience as everyone was in a clique and didn't want to mix. I want to make new friends on my year abroad so avoiding cliques is a shallow but necessary criterion.
- Despite what I have just said, I do like the look of LACs (apart from the alleged cliques). If I applied to some on the East Coast, could you tell me what you know about GOUCHER COLLEGE, ROANOKE COLLEGE and UNIVERSITY OF RICHMOND. All seem to be in great historical locations and Roanoke is having an Amtrak service built by the time I arrive so that won't be as isolated as it currently looks.
I truly appreciate all of your responses and have really made some changes in my approach since my opening post. It’s great to have this forum as a resource to learn more about the universities in the U.S. as I currently have very shallow, stereotypical views of certain regions and schools. So thank you!