<p>ahh... i need some quick help... i have a semi-crush on this kid that I've worked with for the past month coaching basketball with... and it ended two weeks ago.. and we were flirting likeee a lottt... and i really want to get to know him better and hang uot with him. but im not sure if i should call him tonight just to hang out as friends.. what do u think? i dont think he knows that im really interestedd... ahhh idk what to do :-( please help...</p>
<p>Call him... what can you loose?</p>
<p>first all lindsey is a geek, second of all shes not a guy
first of all i have a girl friend and im a guy who is expierenced
heres what you say you say what you feel</p>
<p>for if you dont say what you feel, you will regret it</p>
<p>if you hang out as friends, you'll end up just friends.</p>
<p>call him............</p>
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<p>Haha!</p>
<p>A little harsh ya think.</p>
<p>Anyway... I probably am (hey we are on CC!)</p>
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I probably am
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<p>If I were, I'd never be able to admit it</p>
<p>"if you hang out as friends, you'll end up just friends."</p>
<p>yup, i know how it goes and it isn't fun</p>
<p>just call him up and be like "yo, take me to a movie son!" haha don't do that. but call him and just talk about stuff for a while and if he says lets hang out, then do it;; if not then wait until he does or call like 2-3 days later if he doesn't.</p>
<p>well actually ive never had a boyfriend so i dont know how valid that advice is but it sounds good to me :] hahaha.</p>
<p>you can lose your dignity if you call him.</p>
<p>I don't think that it will matter that much in a year or so that this guy she semi-had crush on rejected her, if she does call him. I don't think she'll lose her dignity.</p>
<p>dignity is overrated anyway. she won't loose it if she calls him, but so what if she does?</p>
<p>yeah soi called him... he didnt answer so i left a messaage... and then i came online and talked to him abuot how he was doing and stuff, cause hes still coaching so we talked for awhile .. and then i was like i called to see if your doing anything tonight but made it sound casual like i would already have plans if he was busy.. and he said he was hanging out with his friends and that he would call me later, which pretty much meant he wasnt going to call. soo instead of worrying abuot it i went out with my friend to a party and had a fun night! =) oh well.. thanks for the advice everyone.</p>
<p>ahhh girlss</p>
<p>Good job. Now go get another cute boy.</p>
<p>I don't see how you solved your problem, but you're welcome anyway.</p>