<p>somebody wanna help me? ok...so last year i had a guy friend....i really liked him and i guess he liked me 2 b/c we did like everything together and ahhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!! he's just really hot and stuff.... we were like bestest friends ever!!! he's awesome. anyway, things just kinda drifted apart after summer vacation. i can still talk 2 him, but things aren't the same anymore!!!!!! he's not going out with anyone, btw. i still like him! how can i at least become closer 2 him like we used 2 b? mission impossible? anything? :(</p>
<p>Have you guys only communicated at school? (since summer) How often do you talk to him?</p>
<p>ya, we've only talked 2 each other at school now (i guess b/c we're not as close anymore). but before we'd talk on the phone if that matters... sigh....</p>
<p>Friendships drift apart all the time, unfortunately. </p>
<p>If you're not willing to accept losing what seems like your crush, you should try calling him and everything. It sucks when friendships drift away over the Summer but that just means you have to work to get them back, good luck</p>
<p>yup friendships come and go, and if you truly believe a certain bond is worth the trouble of trying to save it, i would drop all inhibitions and go for it. take the initiative and don't have any regrets.</p>
<p>i do like him...we're not total strangers or anything--just not the same as we're used to be...what should I say? at first i don't wanna sound way serious...um...he's funny--should i joke with him or something to kind of like 'renew' our old interests? i know i can't live in the past anymore and i've tried to accept that. things are unfortunately never gonna be the same again....it's still like he and i have a thin thread still attached to each other. we used to have a strong bridge... should i try to build on to the thread for a bridge? how? i'm trying to rebuild our friendship, but i'm lost...</p>
<p>Just go and say hi to him. I know with me I'd rather have someone say hi to me before I say hi to them. Ask him how everything has been and whats up. Just start with a normal conversation.</p>
<p>that sounds like a good start...., thanks</p>
<p>I had a similar issue except with a girl....we hung out last year and after the summer, we kind of drifted apart. I haven't really talked to her that much but hopefully I'll talk to her this semester to get our friendship back on track...as I will be a second semester senior.....any suggestions?</p>
<p>Just start having experiences with him again, once you start doing things together and stuff conversions and everything will pick up... If you keep up with hanging out with him and stuff, then drifting apart shouldn't be an issue. Just don't let it go too long without calling him or w/e</p>
<p>Talk to him. I don't understand your problem. He's not dating anyone and it doesn't so like you are.... I don't get it!</p>