<p>The son of the OP is perfectly willing to get a summer job. I put all jobs whether volunteer or for pay, in same category, but I realize that colleges will expect students to contribute from their paying summer job.</p>
<p>I also don't think that a student with a strong work ethic as this young man has shown, will have trouble finding a job.</p>
<p>My D, * did* have a volunteer job, from 12 years old, through high school graduation. However, she also didn't have a GPA above 4.00, or was captain of a sports team. Actually, she did not even * participate* on a sports team, till her senior year of high school, when I suggested that she try one.</p>
<p>I would agree with the posters that say jobs are a valuable EC. Well- duh. HOwever, not every student should feel compelled to fill every minute of their day.My D for example- had well over 2000 hours committed to her main volunteer job, by the time she graduated from high school. She not only worked it during the summer, but on weekends and after school during the school year.</p>
<p>Its possible, that if she had tempered her involvement, she could have raised her GPA, from a 3.33. But her job was very important to her, and I agreed that it should have a priority. </p>
<p>What I have tried to do, has been listen to my child, give her guidance to make decisions, and as long as her decision is reasonable, allow her to learn from it.
I did have hard and fast rules of course, mainly around safety issues.
I could have just as easily gone another way.</p>
<p>Her sister for example, * needs* sports. She did participate in the same volunteer job, until that program was canceled. There isn't a comparable program nearby, and instead she has increased her sports activity as well as her school work and social life.</p>
<p>She is on one sports team or another, through the school year, with overlap in training and competition. In the summer, she has a similar job, volunteering, with an eye to being paid for it, once she is old enough to do so at 18.</p>
<p>I don't see the importance of having everything scheduled and overbooked.
It reminds me of a young man who skipped high school, went to right to college, and at 19 was working @ Microsoft.
Everyone who knows him ( and Microsoft) thought to themselves * oh gawd- why?*
Stop. And. Smell. The. Roses :)</p>