<p>I am a girl who has been told that I am attractive. I take physical aspects of a relationship very cautiously. I am friendly but defiitely not "easy," as I feel I have to get to know someone really well beforehand. </p>
<p>I have not had a boyfriend yet, but the guys that I meet are all in a hurry. Any advice?</p>
<p>Wear deodorant.</p>
<p>There are decent guys out there; I promise you. I won’t do anything below the belt till marriage, and I’ve dated guys who don’t feel the same way but respect that regardless. Just be patient. The friends first thing generally helps.</p>
<p>Tinfoyl, Northwestern is blushing & ruefully rethinking its decision. </p>
<p>Away, you will meet plenty of people of both sexes who are cautious with physical relationships. You just need a bigger pool. Like college.</p>
<p>^</p>
<p>You’re right. I apologize for my flippant remark and am at this moment blushing and ruefully rethinking my decision to post that comment. In the future I will respect the gravitas of an issue such as boyfriends on the “College Search & Selection” board. My best advice would be to simply act as yourself, be friendly but not overbearing, let these things come to fruition on their own without too much of a forced hand, and most importantly of all, watch every film starring the romantic dynamic duo of Meg Ryan and Tom Hanks - study and emulate their zesty banter. Hope I’ve made amends now.</p>
<p>^ And I’m SURE someone who writes posts like that has had a girlfriend…</p>
<p>^</p>
<p>No, someone who writes posts like that recognizes the inanity of someone writing, “I am a girl who has been told that I am attractive. I take physical aspects of a relationship very cautiously. I am friendly but defiitely (sic) not ‘easy.’” I just found that rather funny, but then again I’m not the epitome of Dear Abby like you people. Sheesh. Lighten up. And yes, I have had relationships - thanks for that lol.</p>
<p>And now I see this thread has been placed where it belongs. SERENITY NOW!</p>
<p>Sure you have</p>
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Look again; you’re in HSL.</p>
<p>Haha I’m in a similar situation. Just be yourself and only do what you’re comfortable doing. Relationships aren’t everything, and some day you’ll meet the right guy (:</p>
<p>:) You’re quite insistent…are you masking some relationship inferiority on your part? Take my word for it, I’ve had relationships. I don’t get why this is so difficult to grasp. It would only appear that I was with someone with a keen sense of humor - not the Eva Braun’s you run around with (if you do “run around” that is). </p>
<p>Reread the OP’s post five times, and if you can’t catch the scent of ■■■■■ then you haven’t been taking your allergy medication. Christ, wolverine you are one stony-faced person.</p>
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<p>Look again; I realized. I seriously don’t get why you people are being so aggressive when someone (sincere no doubt) creates a thread on a college website saying how attractive they are, but boys simply run away. But she’s not “easy” - no, she likes the chase.</p>
<p>Are you kidding me lol?!</p>
<p>^That’s really uncalled for. A lot girls in high school are very sensitive about relationships and the way others feel about them. She’s certainly not the first or last to ask about relationships and advice so lay up.</p>
<p>Nah, I saw it got moved, I’m just screwing with you.</p>
<p>Though it wasn’t a particularly nice or constructive comment you made; if this isn’t a ■■■■■, it’s a girl with self-esteem issues, and you’re not helping.</p>
<p>Anyway,</p>
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If there’s a guy you like and have become friendly with, just ask him out. What’s the worst that could happen?</p>
<p>What is a “stony-faced person”?</p>
<p>I am not masking any inferiority. Unless you think having been in 5 relationships is inferior.</p>
<p>I disagree that the OP seems like a ■■■■■.</p>
<p>I’ve seen several of your posts; they’re pedantic and futile.</p>
<p>What is this I don’t even</p>
<p>Can we not turn this into a date-measuring contest? I don’t think anyone here honestly cares how many relationships either of you have been in.</p>
<p>Wolverine, you were initially right that the comment was uncalled for, but you haven’t offered any help, just gotten into a pointless argument.</p>
<p>be patient girl, and there’s always that shy cute guy around. go up to him, flirt, and see where it goes. he’ll probably have the same morals as you!</p>
<p>There is nothing wrong without a boyfriend!
Beside if like stated before. College! Haha
Well have fun in high school :)</p>
<p>I find it hard to believe that I could be both pedantic AND futile! Maybe one or the other…? And I would do you the favor of reading your posts, but I really could care less. But then again, I haven’t had FIVE (!) girlfriends like you. Cool story bro. </p>
<p>I was aiming for droll, Dolorous, not sardonic if that’s what you interpreted it as. Reading the original post, it just sounded ridiculous to me. So, I gave a ridiculous answer. Let’s just simmer down y’all.</p>