.....and i thought i was going to Wake Forest...

<p>Everything was going really great. I came from an international high school in Indonesia, and being admitted to Wake Forest means that I am at the highest point in my school (no student in the school's history has ever been accepted to a university that is better than Wake). I went to FedEx to send my deposit with a great big smile on my face, and i said to myself, "This is it! My college application process is over once the clerk stamps my deposit envelope. I'm gonna be able to call myself a Demon Deacon!" Days gone by, and that huge smile has yet to leave my jubilant face. Yesterday was the start of my IB final exams; I tried as hard as i could to achieve the highest grade, because a grade less than the one I was accepted with means that Wake will rescind my acceptance, and i wouldn't let that happen in a million years. Everything was absolutely and incredibly perfect. What could go wrong right? Something completely unexpected. </p>

<p>Me, and my whole family were fairly confident in our financial situation, and paying for college wouldn't be much of a problem. However, two hours ago, my mom came to my room, her eyebrows creased with worry. She took a deep breath, and exhaled; words came soon after, "Your dad just talked to me. He's outside crying his life out...We (a great big pause)...We have a huge financial problem...we cannot pay your Wake Forest tuition."</p>

<p>I cannot breathe a word for a while; a part of me pleaded to myself, "Complain!", but my better half told me to be quiet, and so I heed to the latter. But after an uncomfortable silence, I broke a few words out of my mouth, "What happened?", and my mom replied, "Something that we just cannot tell you about. All that I can say is that I am truly, truly sorry. I know how hard you have worked to achieve what you got, but...", she cannot continue as she left my room with total and utter sadness.</p>

<p>A year full of hard work, crushed with one single moment. I wanted to burst into tears, but seeing how sad my mom already is, I cannot burden her with anymore emotions. All of my friends are busy studying for tomorrow's IB exams; I have no one to talk to. I sat for an hour, completely engulfed with sadness and disbelief. I went outside to try and cheer my parents; i put on a straight face and said, "it's okay guys...it's just college...we can go look for cheaper ones....the most important part is that you guys have worked hard to give me what i have right now, and that's the only things that mattered" Emotions were trying to break my face, but i stayed strong until i reached my room. I just sat there in front of my computer, lifeless. I started to look for options, and the best that I found is a transfer agreement between Cornell and a CUNY community college that guarantee's a student's transfer after two years in CUNY. The catch? it only gives guarantee to a few majors, and one of them is agribusiness (the only one that is slightly appealing). Here I was planning my life to graduate from Calloway as a Bachelor of Business Administration, with a concentration in finance; a dream of mine since 9th grade, for such degree would allow me to work in Wall Street, and now? My only chance is to graduate with an agribusiness degree. A good degree, from Cornell nonetheless, but one that I utterly have no passion whatsoever. It is no question that i would always dream of attending Wake, for it's program, it's campus, and it's CC community has captivated my heart. Thank you pinkcupkace14, rockvillemom, and CBBBlinker for providing me with the information that I needed. But now, I'm sorry to say that I cannot participate in Wake's library rave, rolling the quad, and many other activities. If fate brings luck, I would sure try again to attend Wake. Once again, thank you all for your kindness, and for being here while others are not. I regret that now, I cannot call myself a Demon Deacon.</p>

<p>Wow man that is awful. im really sorry
trry not to stress out too much, there are always other great schools, and who knows, maybe you will end up here one day…</p>

<p>Why don’t you call Wake’s financial aid office and tell them your financial circumstances have changed and you’d like to speak about your options.</p>

<p>So very sorry BrownPenn. I am sure you will be fine in the long run, you have the drive it takes to succeed, but this would have been much easier if you didn’t have a month to assume all was well. I hope your parents have a good excuse for waiting so long to break this news to you.</p>

<p>i am very upset that you will not be joining us next year…you can always apply to transfer their next year once you get your financial aid stuff redone with you new situation (assuming that it is a change from before). if you end up at Cornell in the end it will not be entirely bad…just something i wanted to add: 3 of my relatives went to CUNY and one is the owner of a restate business and the other two are extremely high up in fortune 500 companies…all is not even remotely lost.</p>

<p>just a question if you don’t mind:</p>

<p>Did Wake Forest state in your acceptance letter that if you get grades lower than when you applied that they will rescind you admission? I have never heard of that…I thought they only rescinded it if you totally flunked a few classes.</p>

<p>Like the others said, I would send an email to the admissions office, maybe even this letter…even a teacher rec or two to show how much you want to go to Wake and see if there is anyway it is possible…</p>

<p>please let me know about the question,
ROB</p>

<p>Oh no! I am so sorry love :frowning: Maybe you can go to CUNY for a year and then try to transfer? I’m not exactly sure what the details of your predicament are, but you should email or write to them as dd2014 has suggested! It definitely couldn’t hurt.</p>

<p>Wow - so sorry to hear this - what a dreadful shock. I think you handled it in a very mature fashion. I have a strong feeling that you will succeed wherever you go - make the best of it and see what happens. As other posters have suggested - transferring in later is always an option. Wishing you the best of luck.</p>

<p>dd2014 - various colleges word it differently - but they will generally rescind your admission only if your grades completely plummet. Say you are approved with mostly As and end senior year with all Cs - now you might be in trouble. Sometimes, the college will write to you after seeing your final grades and request a meeting - a sit down prior to the start of the semester for you to explain your poor grades and have an opportunity to redeem yourself. So, don’t worry about it too much - just keep your grades up.</p>

<p>I’m so sorry to hear your sad news. You were definitely one of the most excited prospective students on these boards. It speaks volumes of your character that in your saddest moments, you thought to protect and shield your mother from your own pain. Because of the heart you clearly possess, I have no doubt that you have a rich and rewarding future ahead of you. </p>

<p>This being said, I would definitely contact Wake and see if there is anything FA can do to help. It may not be possible, but you won’t know unless you try. Good luck, sending positive energy to you.</p>

<p>1 IB mark lower and they would have rescinded your offer? You told me they didn’t care about IB scores :(</p>

<p>thanks guys…i really appreciate it. Do you think it can work? an international student asking for financial aid?</p>

<p>@Ambar88 not one IB mark lower…it’s like what rockvillemom said, if you were admitted to wake forest with straight A’s, and you graduated with a C average, then you’re in some kind of a trouble…so lets say you were admitted to Wake with an IB score of 36…if you somehow get a score of 24 for the final grade, Wake has the right to rescind your acceptance…when i talked about no minimum IB score, i meant at the time of your initial application (before you are admitted)…so as long as you’re doing great in your exams, you have nothing to worry about</p>

<p>BPL - I have absolutely no idea about FA for international students at Wake. Please e-mail the FA office and describe your situation and see what directions they give you. Let us know what happens.</p>

<p>what about deferring for a year? i think that there is absolutely no chance that i can get any FA. My parents are still trying as hard as they can to put me in Wake Forest this year, but they say if all else fails, they can make sure that the financial resources will be ready by next year…can i defer after i submitted my deposit? how do i ask for a deferral? I’m not ready to give Wake Forest up yet, and if it means waiting another year to attend Wake, then by all means, I’ll do it with no remorse</p>

<p>E-mail admissions and determine who you need to speak to about this option - probably an academic dean. You also need to have a proposal of sorts of what you will do during the coming year - work, internship, travel, etc.</p>

<p>I called…they say that they do not offer deferrals whatsoever…and the website says that there are no FA for international students…i just have to accept it and move on. Try my best at another college and apply as a transfer next year or the other. So i guess it’s final…i’m going to a community college…i mean i could get into a great university here in my country, but i just don’t like their teaching style…they are simply too dogmatic, and not open to any suggestions…so i don’t care…i’m going to the US and go to a cc…and i’ll do my best so i can get an acceptance to Wake again as early as next year.</p>

<p>BPL: so sorry to hear about your outcome…NACAC has a list of schools that are still accepting applications; maybe glance at that (it is not updated yet) before you decide on cc option since quite a few CC’s in the US do not have traditional college life or campuses…</p>

<p>I have no affiliation to Wake, but is it possible for you to discuss other options with them? in terms of where they think you should spend next year to better ensure transfer success?</p>

<p>BPL…I read many of your posts. People like you, like Pink and so many others, are the reason why I look forward to Wake Forest. And it is so sad to hear that you can’t go to Wake Forest. Sorry…</p>

<p>What about loans? I don’t know how it works with international students, but if your parents can provide you with financial help after the first year, wouldn’t it make sense to borrow some money to pay for the first year?</p>

<p>Is it possible for you to borrow some moeny from like a bank from Indonesia? </p>

<p>Don’t give up yet, maybe there is still hope.</p>

<p>Best wishs.</p>

<p>thank you Jaguar2010…and your suggestion is really interesting…i’ll look it up, and see if i can do anything about it (my position in Wake is still active, and hoping that it’ll stay that way)…i’ll let you guys know what’ll happen…thanks again</p>

<p>I know it is very difficul to get financial aid as an international student studying in the US but there is some. Did you look at edupass dot org? They list schools that offer aid to undergrad students and other useful info. Here is some of the info on Schools that offer financial aid to internationals (you can start there and transfer to Wake later -some of these schools may still be accepting students ) Also as another poster indicated, look into banks in Indonesia or organizations of Indon. students studying abroad to find resources. Good Luck to you. My niece was accepted to Wake but chose another college. I am a big fan of Wake nonetheless.</p>

<p>from edupass:</p>

<p>Schools with Awards to More than 150 Students </p>

<p>Arizona State University (AZ)
Barry University (FL)
Clark Univ. (MA)
Eastern Michigan Univ. (MI)
Grinnell College (IA)
Harding Univ. (AR)
Harvard (MA) Illinois Inst. of Tech. (IL)
Liberty Univ. (VA)
Louisiana State Univ. (LA)
Macalester College (MN)
Marquette Univ. (WI)
MIT (MA)
Mount Holyoke College (MA) Ohio Wesleyan Univ. (OH)
Princeton (NJ)
SUNY Plattsburgh (NY)
Univ. of Bridgeport (CT)
Univ. of Houston (TX)
Univ. of Pennsylvania ¶
Univ. of South Florida (FL) </p>

<p>Schools with Awards to 100-149 Students </p>

<p>Brown Univ. (RI)
Calvin College (MI)
College of Wooster (OH)
Dartmouth (NH)
Dordt College (IA)
Eckerd College (FL)
Florida Inst. of Tech. (FL)
Georgia Southern Univ. (GA)
Graceland College (IA)
Luther College (IA)
Middlebury College (VT)
Northeast Louisiana (LA)
Oberlin (OH)
Savannah Coll. of Art (GA)
Slippery Rock Univ. ¶
Smith College (MA)
Stanford (CA)
Texas Christian Univ. (TX)
Tri-State Univ. (IN)
Univ. of Miami (FL)
Univ. of Rochester (NY)
Yale (CT) </p>

<p>Schools with Awards to 50-99 Students </p>

<p>Abilene Christian Univ. (TX)
Allegheny College ¶
Augsburg College (MN)
Beloit College (WI)
Bethany College (WV)
Brandeis Univ. (MA)
Bryn Mawr College ¶
California Lutheran (CA)
Cleveland Inst. of Music (OH)
Colby College (ME)
Columbia Univ. (NY)
Concordia Coll. (MN)
Cornell Univ. (NY)
Denison Univ. (OH)
Franklin & Marshall ¶ George Wash. Univ. (DC)
Goshen College (IN)
Houghton College (NY)
Ithaca College (NY)
Julliard School (NY)
Knox College (IL)
Lake Forest College (IL)
Lawrence Univ. (WI)
Lewis & Clark (OR)
Lynn Univ. (FL)
Maharishi Intl. Univ. (IA)
Monmouth College (IL)
North Park Univ. (IL)
Principia College (IL)
Rochester Inst. of Tech. (NY) Salem College (NC)
St. Augustine’s College (NC)
St. Johns College (MD)
St. Lawrence Univ. (NY)
St. Olaf College (MN)
Trinity College (CT)
Tulane Univ. (LA)
Univ. of Maine (ME)
Univ. of Wisc./Eau Clair (WI)
US International Univ. (CA)
Washington College (MD)
Washington Univ. (MO)
Wesleyan Univ. (CT)
Western Maryland Coll. (MD)
Wittenberg Univ. (OH)</p>

<p>@ BrownPennLover: Hey, at least you were a Demon Deacon!</p>