<p>^ it basically never lasts long. From what I can tell, girls have a much harder time not getting emotionally attached when they're being intimate than guys do. And once feelings develop, it either totally ends or they become "official"</p>
<p>Ever heard of the college marriage.........friends w/ benefits and then upon graduation they go their own way. It is not uncommon and they each persue their academic plan with no time, interest or thought of long term commitment. Grad School is paramount and emotional commitment gets in the way.</p>
<p>Sounds like my situation with the couple living in my room. They just violated the contract this morning- third time over this weekend whereas the contract stipulates for two times!</p>
<p>Heh, my roommate is doing that to me
I leave the room to do things but when I'm not busy I just hang out in my room.
And she tends to leave within several minutes after I arrive...
So I tend to want to go with her to meals since she's right there anyways...</p>
<p>oh dear</p>
<p>wow.. hahah</p>
<p>yea actually my roommate is not the only one in a pseudo-relationship...a bunch of my friends are doing that but i dont think its friends w benefits bc they're def. more than friends and would get upset if they hooked up w anybody else...i guess people just don't like the title i dont know</p>