<p>I’m pretty tired, but I’ll write.</p>
<p>In general, the kids that have parents paying for everything take things less seriously. Don’t get upset if your opinion differs from this. You have a lot of wealth at Tulane, a lot of the “New Yorkish” culture. Most of the kids here come from comfortable families. Kids with wealth, and few worries, act differently than the kids that have worked for a scholarship, applied for financial aid and have student jobs. They are the ones that think the weekend starts on a Thursday, and you aren’t having a good time until you are vomiting on your neighbor. They are prone to skipping class and blowing off tests in favor of parties. This clashes very much with kids that know their education at Tulane depends on their good grades and a work schedule. They don’t have the luxury of acting like children that are away from the scolding eye of their parents for the first time in their life. They have to act like adults or else they have no money, or are wasting their own.</p>
<p>Keep in mind, this is in general. I’m sure most of the student population would consider me coming from wealth. I don’t have to work and don’t have to think twice about going to the movies on a Saturday, buying shampoo, etc. But I’m extremely studious. The serious “privileged” kids (as my friend once called it) do exist. But with sincerity, parents, if you saw how some of your kids acted here you’d probably stop the checks. If they say they don’t drink, they probably do.</p>
<p>When I call Tulane an island, I mean that it is a cultural island. Kids feel at home and comfortable at Tulane because it is basically a Northeastern university put in the south. (Don’t expect diversity coming to this school.) Now, I’m from the Midwest. Granting the fact we are known to be generous people, I still find this city to be ruder than most. Not everyone, of course. (And yes, when you go into small shops, they smother you with kindness because they want you to buy something.) It’s just the “tendency of the people” as one of my professors put. I don’t really want to make this a laundry list of specific complaints, but in general unless you are from New Orleans, you won’t get people that have lived here their entire lives, and they frankly won’t care about you. The population of New Orleans actually really dislikes “Tulane kids”–we have a reputation for being spoiled, drunken partiers that come to the city, take what we want/need from it, and leave. And they might be right. Some of us are extremely obnoxious. Example: Tulane girl at Superbowl parade, “Oh my God, there is NO excuse for a parade being this long. I’m cold and want to go home. Jesus, walk faster people!” I mean, can you imagine? These residents have to wait how many years for a Superbowl win, and then have to listen to some whiny girl complain about people throwing her free candy and beads?</p>
<p>I’ve met notable exceptions (both with considerate Tulane kids and New Orleans residents), but still, after two years, don’t feel “apart” of this city or welcome by it as a whole, despite volunteering and being involved with the city. I think part of my problem is that I can’t even walk down Broadway Street at night without having to be afraid of being mugged at gunpoint. (Seriously, it’s happened five times.) Why anyone would choose to live in a city that’s so dangerous, even with its cultural benefits, is beyond me. </p>
<p>This is likely going to come across as being too blunt, but I’m really only being honest.</p>