<p>post away!</p>
<p>Last for junior prom I was. Hilarious story actually.</p>
<p>So I wanted to ask this girl to jprom, except for a whole week I was totally pussying it out. she was always with her friends, also she is on the quiet side, and i didn’t know her that well even though we shared a lot of spanish/science classes together over the years, not to mention she is really pretty and was probably “out of my league”. Then on the friday a week before prom, I decided I would go ask her but a senior friend that people told me i should take but I didn’t want to came out of the hallway as I was walking to the track and asked if i was taking her, and she was with her giggling friend too. In a sort of panic, I said “fine” and ended up walking to my car not realizing what i did. but over the weekend i kept swearing at myself and was generally ****ed off so on monday the next week, I found my senior friend another person to take her and went off and asked the girl I wanted to and she said yes and we are tight now.</p>
<p>happy story! lol</p>
<p>No. I am just too poor.</p>
<p>So I wanted to ask this girl to jprom, except for a whole week I was totally pussying it out. she was always with her friends, also she is on the quiet side, and i didn’t know her that well even though we shared a lot of spanish/science classes together over the years, not to mention she is really pretty and was probably "out of my league</p>
<p>Damn! Im in the exact same situation.</p>
<p>You guys are cowards. What’s the worst that could happen? She says no? You would be in the same position you were if you didn’t ask.</p>
<p>^^^ If she were a total stranger, this is true. But at school, I think it can be a very different situation.</p>
<p>You guys are cowards. What’s the worst that could happen? She says no? You would be in the same position you were if you didn’t ask.</p>
<p>What’s the worst that could happen?
The girl you like will never be your friend again if she says no.</p>
<p>That’s not true. I think that people always assume the worst, which influences their lack of confidence and action. Just ask her casually. If she says no, so be it. However, if you don’t ask her, you will never know. While it may save you from embarrassment if she says no, you will continue to wonder what her answer would have been and you will never truly know. You may have missed a great opportunity to get to know someone who may possess the same feelings as you.</p>
<p>I think it is true. Then on it would be extremely awkward.</p>
<p>If you want to focus on the worst possible outcome, so be it. You will never know.</p>
<p><a href=“http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/high-school-life/478302-how-do-i-know-if-girl-interested-me.html?highlight=Girl+Interested[/url]”>http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/high-school-life/478302-how-do-i-know-if-girl-interested-me.html?highlight=Girl+Interested</a></p>
<p>I should start a cult around that thread. It’s semi-applicable in this situation</p>
<p>You are obsessed with that thread lol</p>
<p>It was the first thread I necroed. It’s near and dear to my heart</p>
<p>Actually, the worst thing that can happen is not the negative response.If a guy, who just got the confidence asks a girl out, and she says no, then this guy will be literally devastated.I mean, he will start thinking that he is either unattractive, or boring, or stuff like these.Then in the future, when he has doubts about inviting other girl, he will hardly have the confidence.</p>
<p>Warts, post #8 shows the pshychiatrist in you! 
idk if i spelled that right. oh well…</p>
<p>Indeed many a man suffers a fisher-king complex as a result of being turned down. In real life it’s one thing, but at school it has to be really political and stuff. WHY!?! Lol.</p>