<p>So there is this girl who sits in front of me in AP Calc, and we've known each other and been somewhat friends since November, and I've started liking her since January of this year, even though I've kept it to myself. I originally never wanted to go to senior prom, but now, I'm feeling more and more the urge to ask that girl out to prom. The thing is though, if she turns me down, I most likely would revert back to being apathetic towards prom, and won't ask anyone else. If she and others find out about this, will they find this odd, and maybe even wonder WHY I just asked her (and suspect that I like her)? I have a few friends who are girls, including her of course, so If I really wanted to go prom, I most likely can find someone. Others can realize this and question why I didn't ask anyone else. Any suggestions on how I should approach this?</p>
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<p>As opposed to… asking her because you didn’t like her?</p>
<p>Should you ask her? Absolutely. </p>
<p>How should you approach this? To speak collegiality, if this girly really is your “first choice” then apply early decision. ;)</p>
<p>Seriously though. Ask her.</p>
<p>No. Sit at home like me.</p>
<p>Would others find it weird if I just ask her though? I mean people always tell you not to care what others think so many times in life, but I really don’t want the fact that I like her to be found out by others.</p>
<p>Btw my previous post is assuming that she turned me down</p>
<p>So you are afraid of rejection? Or are you worried that you can only ask one person?</p>
<p>To be honest, I don’t think liking someone is anything to be ashamed of. If you get rejected and people find out, then they will feel sorry for you, which isn’t necessarily a worst case scenario. If she accepts you, then they will find out anyway. </p>
<p>Do you know if she likes you and if she has any other people that might ask her? She probably won’t say no, and in any case, being asked to prom is paying her a compliment and I doubt she would reject you.</p>
<p>Ask her! Of course other people will most likely find out that you asked her, and assume that you like her… but you DO like her, so what’s the problem. Even if she says no or doesn’t want to go, she will probably be flattered and take it as a big compliment. Besides, I don’t think that people really care or think about it as much as you think they do. It’s high school - people ask other people to dances.</p>
<p>Whatever you do, relax, and have fun!</p>
<p>The worst she’ll say is no. And I don’t imagine other people at school will even care.</p>
<p>@JuniorMint LOLOLOL.</p>
<p>Dont br a wuss and man up</p>
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<p>^ what he said.</p>
<p>be a THE ALFA MAN, man!</p>
<p>I feel ya bro. My crush is 2 seats in front of me in AP Calc. I known her since freshman year (we met in Geometry xD). Tupac once said “Keep ya head up.” So I did and now I’m going to the after prom party at school wit her :)</p>
<p>Just ask her. I know so many guys who worry over asking a girl to prom and rejection, and in the end the girl almost always said yes. Usually girls are waiting to be asked and want to go to the prom.</p>
<p>Ok, so how should I go about doing it? I’m not looking for any “creative” ways, just try to be as straightforward as possible. What’s like a good setting to do so? I’m thinking about just simply walking in her direction after leaving AP Calc, and say that I want to ask her a serious question, then go from there. Good idea?</p>
<p>Well, that would sound a little like you wanted to propose… </p>
<p>How about asking a lighthearted question? This is prom, man.</p>
<p>like what?</p>
<p>Hmm, I would bring a large bouquet of balloons and just ask her whenever she says something to you first. For example, you can stand in front of her, and she will have to start smirking and say something like, “Who are those for?” That is when you put on the smoulder expression, pretend to brush dust off your shoulder, and then say, “You, of course.” :)</p>
<p>is it ok if I just straight up ask her while walking with her in the hallway?</p>
<p>I think that’s perfectly fine :). Just ask her in a very nice and dignified way. You may want find out if she wants to be asked out in a big way, or if she would be pressured by that or not like that and just want to be plain asked. Personally, I think the creative way of asking is really overrated. Good luck :)</p>
<p>Just ask her! It’s you senior year if she says no, you’ll most likely not see her again. Just do it!</p>