<p>So, there's this girl. I kind of like her. </p>
<p>I pretty much never knew she existed (likewise for her/me) all 4 years except this semester I have 3 out of 4 classes with her. </p>
<p>I haven't talked with her that much, just small stuff about hw, class, etc. </p>
<p>She's laughed at stuff I've said/faces I've made. Has Smiled and waved at me in the hall, etc. Bad thing is that I don't know her well enough to know if she is legitimately interested in me or if shes just being nice and friendly. </p>
<p>Now, prom is coming up. Fast. It's April 30 for us. Sucks. </p>
<p>What's worse is that I've heard that like 5 other guys are thinking about asking her as well. No one knows that I like her or that I'm thinking about asking her to prom, except for a couple of my friends. </p>
<p>Another thing: she's sort of more in the athlete group, but her close friends are not. And she is not that type where she would be exclusive to that group, I don't think. (I am an athlete, but not the same...um....kind as her I guess you could say). </p>
<p>Anyway, I really don't know what to do. I feel like it's senior year and I should have no regrets, but I feel like if I ask her people might be like.."what was he thinking" or something. She's such a nice person tho haha. </p>
<p>Sorry how long this is...I'll add more details if you have questions. </p>
<p>Oh, and my basic question how weird would this be. lol</p>
<p>Bro, lets have a man chat. If she is the only one you want to go with, and she has other sutors, GO FOR IT! Senior year man, live it up! Expecially second semester seinor year when everyone has a bad case of sienoritis. Now, if you have a backup that isn’t as good in your mind but would still be fun to go with, then you got some thinking to do. I feel like I will be in the same situation next year ; )</p>
<p>Go and ask early! Also, don’t make it too public in case you get rejected or anything (which I sort of doubt, considering she’s a nice girl). This way you can ask someone else later. And it’s not too weird. As long as you two have gotten along well, and you know each other’s names, it should be fine.</p>
<p>April 30 is coming up fast, although mine’s even earlier at April 10th, and I feel like I should find a date…</p>
<p>Dude, it’s only one night. Ask her and see if she accepts, but don’t feel down if it doesn’t work. It’s Senior year. You’re out of there in a couple of months so it shouldn’t really matter too much. </p>
<p>Theme is applied to Beautifulnights and MattNC.</p>
<p>^^Haha okay, true, true. I was just answering the question of whether it’d be weird if he asked this girl to prom, implying that it would be weird if they didn’t know each other’s names.</p>
<p>But “fun with, you know, a little, you know”? I think I might be catching your drift, but not really haha.</p>
<p>really that’s all. I mean, girls like to be just straight out asked and hate the guessing. If she’s nice and chill she’ll say yes easily. I would quickly just say “Yeah sure” to a guy asking me plain out to prom, instead I have this one playing this flirt/text/figureouthowshefeels game and it’s like “ugh”.</p>
<p>Let me take you to the movies. Can I take you to the show?
Let me be yours ever truly. Can I make your garden grow?
Where is TCBH? Why are all HSL veterans leaving at the same time? Oh, and unusual euphemisms FTW!</p>
<p>They do, and I had a creative idea/plan to ask one of my friends, until I found out she wasn’t planning on going
Now I sort of gave up on figuring out a new creative idea to ask someone else. Just gonna go with the old flowers and balloons.</p>
<p>@olleger, throw a stuffed bear then. At school here the girls are like “grow a pair”. Hah, girls ask out guys if tired of waiting really. The best ask out I ever saw was a guy shouting at this girl across the lunch room (about 4 table width) lines “HEY! BE MY GIRLFRIEND!” so she was like “OKAY! BUT BUY ME A SODA FIRST!” (cause he was in the buying line and she was over in the burger line). The cafeteria just went crazy. Very romantic.</p>
<p>Whan: On your advices you gave me on asking for a girl out with me to prom eventually won’t work. I did not bother asking anyone because I’ve known these people for four years. Come in my shoes, and you’ll find out why any of them isn’t worth asking since they’ll say no. If I had to spare money for prom, it’ll become a waste since I’ll probably be the only guy without a girl at the event.</p>
<p>Why not ask anyone you’ve known for 4 years? You can ask them as “just friends” too you know. There doesn’t have to be anything romantic or anything involved, especially if your whole group is comprised of your friends. I mean, exactly what is holding you back? And why do you think they’ll say no for sure?</p>
<p>Whan: I don’t know man. It’s just kind of hard to explain it. They may think that I’m a little weird or something and I don’t want to receive negative feedbacks for such personal quality of who I am not individually. Sure we may be able to go out to prom, but I just think that the “getting together” thing at the prom isn’t going to work, but will work for other guys.</p>
<p>??? “Getting together”? If you guys are friends, you should have no problem just hanging out and having fun at prom. I’m just sayin that there’s no reason for prom to necessarily be romantic, you can just make it friendly. I don’t think anyone should judge your for that…</p>
