<p>tucker92:</p>
<p>yes, I am in fact a douglass girl! and I feel weirdly honored that you know such things. so yes, summer orientation. did not like it. here is why:
first, I am shy, initially. so making us do four hours worth of ice breakers on the first day (which require doing embarrassing things in front of a lot of people, which makes me feel uncomfortable, and thus, more shy) does not help me meet people or make me feel like I have business being there. it kind of just felt like a waste of time. an awkward, uncomfortable waste of time.</p>
<p>I stayed at lippincott, which is probably where your daughter will stay. but since lippincott now houses males due to the housing shortage and is not part of DRC anymore, perhaps your daughter will stay in katzenbach, which is pretty much the same thing anyway.</p>
<p>also, you attend two information sessions about douglass. one is an information session that introduces the other information session that is an introduction to the class that you will take in the fall which is an introductory class to women’s leadership and gender issues. I did not find either particularly useful or informative. also the speaker was one of the deans that just does not have a very commanding presence. she just came off as awkward and not very welcoming or approachable. she seemed knowledgeable, don’t get me wrong, but she just did not have the commanding presence i would expect from a dean.</p>
<p>and you go on a tour of the campus, which didn’t help me know where i was once i got on to campus in the fall. i think it actually confused me more. you attend an info session on setting up internet on campus and using the printing labs and whatnot, which was probably the most useful thing i got out of orientation. and you also attend an academic planning session based on your area of academic interest. i was with the honors students, and we received our housing but not roommate assignments, which I suppose was a privilege because the other students did not receive the same kind of information. I don’t know what the other students did at this time, but they probably discussed educational pathways or something like that. and you eat at the dining hall twice, get pizza on the first day, and like little muffins on the second day for breakfast. i honestly don’t know what amounted to 100 dollars, the fee for the program. it just baffles me.</p>
<p>and after dinner on the first day, you get together with your floor and there is this poll-taking thing. i wonder who was the person who suggested, “hey, let’s get these people, who barely know each other, together and ask them private, uncomfortable questions and see how they respond!” and who were the people who went like, “yeahhh! that’s a great idea!!”??? it was uncomfortable. they aked us questions like, do you drink? WHY NOT?? do you party? do you believe in premarital sex? </p>
<p>what ice cream flavor do you prefer–vanilla or chocolate? and mind you, this was in mid-july. we should not be forced to undergo this sort of discomfort and awkwardness until the real orientation in the fall. </p>
<p>also, keep in mind that this is just me. i know some people who really liked it and think i’m crazy for not enjoying it, and some people who are with me and were homesick after the first day. also sorry if i sound nihilistic, but the orientation committee really did not cater to the introverted and didn’t stop to ask itself, “will this make them feel uncomfortable?” after all, isn’t the point of orientation kind of like an initiation, an acquainting yourself to others, a means of inviting people, making them feel at home, meaning, comfortable? but since fall orientation was pretty much a repeat of summer orientation, just with more people and lengthier, I did not find summer orientation particularly useful. </p>
<p>No, you do not meet your roommate. i’m not really sure how they pick who rooms together since they don’t survey you beforehand or anything. And also, if you meet someone at summer orientation and think that you might want to live together, you can’t change to request to live with each other since the roommate assignments are being finalized during that time. or at least that’s what happened during my summer orientation.</p>