Originally he wanted a music school within a large university (like USC or U Miami U Mich) because he wanted to take some academic courses or double major, but then got a huge scholarship at a stand-alone music school that seemed a great fit. It made financial sense but he was also very excited because he could design his program with performance and music production, etc.
First year was remote from his bedroom, it kind of sucked but he made Deans list and it was a better experience than expected.
Second year first semester was very rocky due to too many credits, getting sick etc. He’s talking about wanting to transfer to a U or college and do music either as extracurricular or dual major. And this is a kid who was super gung ho and convinced music was his calling. And talented enough to get almost a full ride.
He’s had iffy mental health through the pandemic. I don’t want to tell him he has to stay, but finances are limited and kid #4 is getting her acceptances now and we figured we could pay a little more for her college since music school kid was set. From what I know, there is no merit for transfers so I can only see the state flagship as an option, but not sure he wants to go there, not even sure he knows what he wants to study.
We are kind of floored by this turn of events. Of course we won’t tell him he has to stay, but wondering if anyone else’s kid transferred from
music school and/or maybe most has a good transfer story to tell?