<p>Hey relax. I'm not a killer mom. Far from it - my S has had no enrichment classes, so far- I've never believed in Kumon or Sylvan or other supplementary edu. for early years, despite practically everyone in my neighborhood - my son has never spent hw for more than 2 hours (max) - I always encourage him to play outside when there is sun before he does his hw (not finish hw and then play - I would'nt want to work after I come from work, unless I really need to) - I've encouraged my S in Music (Piaono - he's gifted, practices less than 1/2 hour per week and still manages to win competitions) and has been taking serious art lessons in summer, for years - I've encouraged ecs over academics (since I believed it is hard to make time for these when U are an adult)</p>
<p>He is very quick to do his HW, and has too much time in hand. With regard to academics, while he is good, he's not overachiever - I cannot imagine him doing Calc in 9th grade (as mootmom's son) or maybe even in 11th (I cannot either, and I'm a Ph.D in Computer Science from 'near Ivy' - and pl. lets not get into 'near Ivy' there is already a silly thread on that)</p>
<p>I'm an immigrant, so I've not been to HS or undergrad school here. So I don't know how the system works. I'll be more than happy (and I say this genuinely) if my S goes to a comm. college, but at the same time there is no harm in trying higher (provided as I said repeated that my son doesn't kill himself or let the AP courses get in the way of the other courses)</p>