<p>"I agree that abortions will occur whether or not abortion is illegal. But if we were to implement your logic then there would be no laws outlawing theft, rape and murder. These crimes still happen even though there are laws against them. So, in essence, you are advocating the entire demolition of the legal system of America. Are you insane?"</p>
<p>I NEVER said that we should eliminate laws outlawing theft, rape, and murder. I believe quite the opposite! Yes these crimes will happen regardless, but the nature of theft, rape and murder is different than the nature of abortion. You can outlaw theft, rape, and murder because they directly harm LIVING people. With abortion, you are terminating the potential of a life that is not wanted in the first place (why do you think people consider abortion?! they DO NOT want children). </p>
<p>"NO, NO and NO! It is not my responsibility to help women who can't appreciate their own flesh and blood. Oh really. Well did you know that suicide and drug usage (marijuana, cocaine, etc.) are illegal. So are you for suicide and for drug usage because you are arguing that a person can do whatever she wants to her body?"</p>
<p>I wasn't saying that it is <em>your</em> responsibility but society's. We need to make sure that people are SAFE. This is why drugs + etc are illegal - they are not safe. We need to make sure that when abortions do occur, they are safe. This happens with drugs - by controlling their use for medical purposes, we make sure they are safe. If somebody wants to take drugs illegally I have no say in that, but society can deter them from doing so. Abortion is not like taking drugs... stop trying to compare apples and oranges. By having control of her body I meant that old, white, rich politicians should NOT have any say in what goes on in a woman's uterus!! </p>
<p>"I'm all for it. I never said that there should not be better education on contraceptives. But why stop there. There should also be more programs on abstinence."</p>
<p>I agree. </p>
<p>"It's people like you that makes me sick. Since when have you been a psychic? How can you or anyone else predict what will happen to a child with complete certainty. In addition, you are essentially arguing that anyone who can't afford a child shouldn't have one. So maybe poor people should be banned from having children. That way only parents who can afford children will have children."</p>
<p>I'm not a psycic and I wasn't intending to predict a child's life with complete certainty. Excuse me for generalizing, but SOME children WILL fall through the cracks in the system. And no, I am not saying that people who can't afford children should not have them. If they are prepared to work for their children and want children, they should go right ahead. Nobody should be denied the right of parenthood. Or course, if they truly cannot support a child then they should think about it - why would any person (poor/rich/whatever), want their child to go underfed, sick, without care, etc. Nobody wants that, and if you do, well... you might just be anti-choice. Living period and actually living in a way that you or somebody else can and wants to take care of you are different things. </p>
<p>I just have a problem with people who do not WANT children having them. Chances are that if you have unprotected sex and are considering abortion, you do not want that child or you are not ready for it. Yes, people do stupid things, but two wrongs don't make a right. If you have unprotected sex (ie. the stupid thing) and are not ready to have or want a child (for example if the parents are both still in high school), why subject the potential child to a miserable existance? </p>
<p>"What a hypocrite! First, you say that an abortion should happen during a certain time in pregnancy. And then you write that life doesn't begin until after birth. Wow, listen to yourself!"</p>
<p>I was saying that life doesn't begin UNTIL the child can survive outside the womb - meaning still during pregnancy. During the latter trimesters, (after 24 weeks I think), it would be possible for the baby to survive. In that case, I am against abortion. That is why abortion should happen during a certain time in pregancy.... before "life" begins. </p>
<p>"Just because some unknown general said that American lives are more important than Rwandans doesn't make it alright to bash all peace-keeping missions."</p>
<p>I am not bashing peacekeeping missions. In fact, I heartily agree that we need them. Especially under the form of the "Responsibility to Protect (R2P)" project which was advocated by the Canadians at the UN (unfortunately it hasn't passed yet). I was simply saying that we need to eliminate the "war" mentality when we do use peacekeeping. This means understanding that each living person has value.</p>