<p>Depends, but I know plenty of heavy girls who get dates. Some look good especially w/ slimming clothing and improving other features.</p>
<p>Okay, these replies are so unfair. People can’t just keep losing weight. They hit a point where they plateau and are unable to lose any more, even if they hardly eat and work out for hours each day. Whether or not a guy likes heavier girls totally depends on personal taste, but guys that shy away from girls solely based on looks without even bothering to get to know them probably aren’t worth it in the long run.</p>
<p>And, if I remember correctly, Marilyn Monroe was a size 13.</p>
<p>^ I would not consider her “heavy.”</p>
<p>Exactly. But she also wasn’t a size 2.</p>
<p>When did curvy become synonymous with fat?</p>
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<p>Sizing was different back then. Judging from her height/weigh, Monroe is a 6/8.</p>
<p>Curvy became synonymous with fat when fat girls started calling themselves curvy to feel better about themselves.</p>
<p>I really hope that post OP directed towards me was meant for dfree… I never said you weren’t curvy, or that you were “fat,” ahah! I was only saying that knowing more about how curvy and/or heavy you are might help… That’s all(: I’m sorry if I came off as rude, ahah… Did I?</p>
<p>Guys do not like fat girls. Guys like thin girls with big breasts and hips. I hope this is clear enough for you OP, now stop daydreaming and deceiving yourself, and lose some weight.</p>
<p>Being fat will not scare guys away
Being worried will not scare guys away
not having enough confidence will not scare guys away
having too much will not scare guys away…</p>
<p>^ There are millions of people in the US and plenty that probably like you just fine. :)</p>
<p>In my friend circle, there is a girl who is like the sweetest person I have come across, and she’s quite pretty too. I would certainly not describe her as ‘thin’, but she’s the first one who’s been asked out in that group of friends! They’ve gone out on quite a few dates after that too.</p>
<p>In another group of friends I have, there’s a girl who’s super easy to talk to…the one you can always count upon to ease awkward situations, she can generally talk a mile a minute even to the nerdiest of guys. She’s verrry plump (I love hugging her!) but I’ve had three male friends tell me that they would like to ask her out…everybody likes happy, popular girls.! :)</p>
<p>For real, nice people, I guess in the end, your character and personality and conversation matters more than your size. You should tick guys who judge you for your size off your list asap, just because they aren’t the kind most sensible people would want to spend their life (or heck, even a date or a month) with.</p>
<p>I would say that it would put a guy who doesn’t know you off thinking you’re hot (excpt in a very few cases) but once people get to know you it makes little difference, except in ‘popular’ crowds where looks ar everything :)</p>
<p>Why not just slim down? You will feel more confident, healthier, and hotter. Just in time for short shorts + bikini season 
And it feels great to be in shape.</p>
<p>Hello there pixie :D</p>
<p>Of all the places, I didn’t expect to find you here :P</p>
<p>im sure there are some</p>
<p>i know guys that prefer meatier girls, but won’t go for fat fat girls. its all about weight distribution. if most of her weight is in her butt, boobs, and thighs, i know a lot of guys that will be attracted to that than slim/skinny girls. if most of her weight is in her arms/stomach, they probably won’t date her.</p>
<p>us guys only count the girls personality, not looks. jk guys go for looks. i like a girl thats in the medium. too thin [except for the girl i like now] are kind of gross but too heavy and you’re out of the question. i know thats very blunt and rude but its the truth and the truth hurts</p>
<p>There are guys that like fat girls but most of them are either very fat (generally its okay for guys to be a little chubby and still be okay to date) or skinny and awkward. Even most of them would probably prefer to date healthier girls. There are chubby chasers though but I don’t think you really want to get involved in the whole fat fetish thing its kind of weird. if I were you I’d try to lose weight.</p>
<p>I could never date/ask out a fat girl. Guys make sacrifices and try to stay in shape for girls. Nothing different should be expected of girls. Just because some girls like fat guys doesn’t mean guys should like fat girls. Your best bet is to go on a long term healthy diet (not some BS get-skinny-quick diet, but one with lots of fruits/veggies and little to no fat/sugar), build some muscle, and drop that fat off. I guarantee you’ll find a suitable mate.</p>
<p>The fact that you made this thread shows some complacency with your body. You can never be complacent, always try to get healthier.</p>
<p>Drummerdawg: Just wondering, what makes you think more girls like fat guys than guys like fat girls? Or maybe I’m not reading your post correctly.</p>