<p>Im starting to get a vibe off of these posts that “rich” people are bad or evil. Or maybe careless.</p>
<p>Well, let me fill you guys in on a little something; the people you see buying million dollar homes and 4 or 5 cars, they do that because they are missing something. They do that to not worry about something, just like drinking (lots) makes you forget your problems (just like these material things, only for a while). Most of them own these homes and cars through loans or mortgages, and are employed (so if they are fired, they will surely regret being such careless spenders)</p>
<p>It also depends on the family. Most of these families haven’t been accustomed to being “rich” (mind you, “wealthy” and “rich” are a world’s away from each other). Most of them lived in the midwest/south and are in their late 30s/early 40s, have troubled kids (just 'cause their dad makes 6 or 7 figures, they can go crazy and live off his money), and have either divorced, going through a divorce, or facing very difficult marriage problems.</p>
<p>Speaking from personal experience, not all wealthy (not rich,but wealthy) people spend exuberantly. My family (im not intending to show off, i swear to you) is a prime example: the most costly vehicle we have ever purchased is a base GMC Yukon, a slightly used one at that. One of the family companies (privately owned) operates its own fleet of 2 G550 jets, and a boeing 777 private configuration. We have never used them for personal uses, and never intend to. We fly coach/economy, and if the points rack up, maybe upgrade to business if we feel like it (rarely). We dont travel every school break, only in the summer if we really need to relax. Even then, we stay at excellent places that are within the reach of middle-income/upper-middle family, but NEVER at seaview mansions or those places Manaay is speaking about. We RARELY buy “designer” clothes, only for the formal or semi-formal events. Most of it comes from regular stores like American Eagle. You would never EVER imagine that theres an excess of 1 billion cash in the background. </p>
<p>We personally know a family who ,by god’s generousity, have been enjoying their wealth (I dont mean to belittle at all, but they only have a fraction compared to us, at most 1/5) exuberantly. They match Manaay’s description. Maybe even more. They own atleast one or 2 houses in every continent, fly on daddy’s only private jet, and drive new cars every 3 months. They cant stand us for the fact that we arent using our money.</p>
<p>The moral of the story is: Not every wealthy or rich person is bad or chauvistic or pompous. They can be very nice people, caring and understanding. They can also be modest!</p>