<p>Wow, thanks for all your responses. Quickly.</p>
<h2>Carolyn</h2>
<p>Thanks, I had a typo in my "stats" spreadsheet which did come mostly from USNews with some numbers from the 2006 Princeton Review "Best 361 ..." book. In a perfect world he would only apply to schools where he is at or above the various median/mean numbers. The fuzzy nature of the numbers and all the other factors that can go into this makes this more difficult than I would like. Based on all the discussion here I think I am going to try to adjust his targets a bit lower. It would be great if he had an ED choice in this group but it is important to pursue one's dreams a bit.</p>
<h2>Cami215</h2>
<p>Yes, F&M is more frat oriented that he/I would like but I enjoyed myself there as an independent and I think it is very possible to do so these days. Who knows he may, shudder...., even take to the Frat culture. It seems to me that the decline in Lancaster over the years has hurt F&M's reputation a bit. I think that situation has been stabilized and the campus looks very nice these days (better than most of the other schools on the list in fact....), probably something all of us feel seeing our old schools after the competitive upgrades required to survive the enrollment dip of the late 80- early 90's. The new President seems to be making a difference, now if his re-recognition of Frats can destroy them.....</p>
<p>I have had Union on my list for sometime as a place to visit when looking at Skidmore. I preferred Union based on their website but it didn't turn my son on and one of his friends has given it a "bad review" so....as you know this process is a bit "messy".</p>
<p>On Chicago, it could have been the "combative" and entertaining tour/info session. Interestingly, I didn't find the campus as good looking as I thought it would be by its reputation so I don't think that is it. Chicago is kind of an outlier in this whole process that I cannot fully explain, most of the others are small LAC's (except for AU with its DC location). I will explore Rochester, I had thought it was more of a technical place but will go "hit the books". </p>
<p>He does not want to take the SAT again but has said he will if I can convince him it will make a big difference. I think he might go up a bit by being 6+ older and really think there is room for improvement on the Math. You and I are thinking along the same lines as I have been pitching the ACT for a bit of a change of pace and to see if it might help at Chicago and Oberlin/Kenyon. I kind of think that his grades/rank will be the defining negative factor at the higher end schools on the list so may just encourage him to have a great first quarter/semester instead of retaking the exams.</p>
<p>Hampshire, like Bard to some extent, does look to require self-discipline. It is on the way to Bates so will rate a visit in any case! I like to think that some of these issues can be worked out by my son on his own in the spring...after he gets in some places.... I will check Centre and Allegheny.</p>
<h2>Jonri</h2>
<p>It is hard to find schools with debate programs,especially below his "reach"/"are your dreaming" level, and I was wondering about the travel involved too. Unfortunately, the league here in CT does only extemp but the team has practiced policy, parliamentary, and LD (they hope to have one LD tournament this year) so the college scene will be quite different no matter where he goes. I have spoken to top kids who have gone on to debate in college and they tell me that they enjoy the other forms more but the switch is very tough at first. This type of debate scoring has its random elements, he has had some undefeated weekends but has not made the final 2 teams yet. This means very strong but not yet awesome as a Soph/Junior we will see what his Senior year brings.</p>
<p>Thanks again to everyone for your responses. This is just the note of reality that I was looking for. I don't like the idea of collecting rejection letters and being "cannon fodder" that just fattens some school's US News stats!</p>