Article Relevant to Helping Kids Choose ECs

<p>Check this out from the NY Times: </p>

<p>"Deliberate practice entails more than simply repeating a task — playing a C-minor scale 100 times, for instance, or hitting tennis serves until your shoulder pops out of its socket. Rather, it involves setting specific goals, obtaining immediate feedback and concentrating as much on technique as on outcome.</p>

<p>Ericsson and his colleagues have thus taken to studying expert performers in a wide range of pursuits, including soccer, golf, surgery, piano playing, Scrabble, writing, chess, software design, stock picking and darts. They gather all the data they can, not just performance statistics and biographical details but also the results of their own laboratory experiments with high achievers.</p>

<p>Their work, compiled in the "Cambridge Handbook of Expertise and Expert Performance," a 900-page academic book that will be published next month, makes a rather startling assertion: the trait we commonly call talent is highly overrated. Or, put another way, expert performers — whether in memory or surgery, ballet or computer programming — are nearly always made, not born. And yes, practice does make perfect. These may be the sort of clichés that parents are fond of whispering to their children. But these particular clichés just happen to be true.</p>

<p>[Florida State University Psychology Prof Anders] Ericsson's research suggests a third cliché as well: when it comes to choosing a life path, you should do what you love — because if you don't love it, you are unlikely to work hard enough to get very good. Most people naturally don't like to do things they aren't "good" at. So they often give up, telling themselves they simply don't possess the talent for math or skiing or the violin. But what they really lack is the desire to be good and to undertake the deliberate practice that would make them better....</p>

<p>"I think the most general claim here," Ericsson says of his work, "is that a lot of people believe there are some inherent limits they were born with. But there is surprisingly little hard evidence that anyone could attain any kind of exceptional performance without spending a lot of time perfecting it." This is not to say that all people have equal potential. Michael Jordan, even if he hadn't spent countless hours in the gym, would still have been a better basketball player than most of us. But without those hours in the gym, he would never have become the player he was.</p>

<p>Ericsson's conclusions, if accurate, would seem to have broad applications. Students should be taught to follow their interests earlier in their schooling, the better to build up their skills and acquire meaningful feedback. Senior citizens should be encouraged to acquire new skills, especially those thought to require "talents" they previously believed they didn't possess."</p>

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<p>Wow, excellent article!</p>

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<p>I remember a documentary about ballet in which a famous ballerina was asked what the most important attribute of a ballerina was. I would have thought she would have said drive, hard work, determination, etc. </p>

<p>Her answer: the most important thing a ballerina must have is "zee body of zee ballerina". . .</p>

<p>Helps to be from Kenya if you want to be a long distance runner also.</p>

<p>I guess a key question to ask is what pool of people are you comparing?</p>

<p>If you take five women with zee body of zee ballerina, the one who works hardest will stand out.</p>

<p>On the other hand, if you take 10 random people and they all work toward becoming basketball stars, I suspect that natural talent and physical attributes will play a role in who becomes successful.</p>

<p>One also needs to take into consideration that often people enjoy doing things for which they have a natural inclination.</p>

<p>However, this belief that anyone can succeed in just about anything if they work hard enough is well respected in America. In situations which are competitive, I think this can generate unfair expectations on the part of parents for what their kids should be able to achieve.</p>

<p>The key point, in my mind - "when it comes to choosing a life path, you should do what you love" -- and I would add, whether others consider you "good" at it or not.</p>

<p>According to the late industrial-organizational psychologist Donald Clifton, who probably was the world's expert on finding the right people for the right jobs, usually the things that people enjoy doing most are the things that tap into their natural talents.</p>

<p>Also, if one gives instruction to a group of people that includes some people who are good at a task and others who aren't, the people who'll improve the most are the people who are best at the task. That's counterintuitive, but it does indicate why someone who's not very good at a task can spend hours and hours trying to improve, but will make very little progress. </p>

<p>Anway, all of this are good reasons to have kids pursue their natural talents when it comes to ECs as well as to academic and vocational interests.</p>

<p>I confess I went through this thought process. I could foresee no good outcome encouraging my kids to do things for which their bodies and temperaments were not suited. </p>

<p>For example, I spent a couple of years watching my daughter, a tall very thin extrovert, playing soccer and spending most of her time, when she wasn't chatting with her teammates or holding her coach's new baby, getting knocked flying by bulkier girls. Whereas in ballet she always had a natural talent. So when the time came to sign up again for soccer, in the absence of huge enthusiasm on her part, we let it lapse. But with ballet, when she would complain she wanted a break, I would always say, "Sure, you can quit as soon as this next performance is done." :). Sure enough, the joy of performing always caused her to reup herself. </p>

<p>In high school I told her to sign up for journalism, with the thought that her natural drive and love of human contact would flourish. Correct again. Giving myself 99% on the mother test:).</p>

<p>For my son, he's a private person. So I am always looking for that little spark, and letting him go with it where he will. Soccer, he adores, always has, always will. No need to get involved, and I don't really care how much visible success he has. He tries, he's committed, he loves it. We've struggled a little bit with music, because he's natively talented. He just hates to practice. When I tried to make him take piano - he just stopped playing altogether. Hmm. Only giving myself a 15% on the mother test. Just the other day, discussing whether I would let him give up band - his teacher quit and he does not enjoy the new teacher at all - I finally told him I had learned that if I make him do something he doesn't want to do we lock into a death spiral and that it was fine if he quit. But that, however, I was not going to be funding a life of NCAA basketball finals tickets and video games.</p>

<p>Yesterday he came home and said, "Mom, how about if I take Spanish 1 next year instead?" He takes Latin already, and will be in Latin 3 Honors next year, and has taken Chinese with me before too. As a little boy, when we spent time with some Swedish relatives, he wanted to learn Swedish. His 8th grade year was a long submersion in anagrams. In other words, yes, this is him. This is his own real interest. You bet buddy, take Spanish 1.</p>

<p>The term I have heard for when you get this kind of stuff right as a parent is scaffolding. You can't build their skyscrapers but you can set up the scaffolding.</p>

<p>And BTW, I have lots of days where I give myself a 15% on parenting. But I'm less weak in this area than others:).</p>

<p>Alumother,
Since your son has languages, have you considered sending him to a language immersion camp or an out of country experience learning a language? </p>

<p>Concordia College in Minn. has wonderful langaguage camps (including for Chinese) that last 2-4 weeks. The kids get passports with their new names, play games, sports, learn crafts, sing songs, etc. in the language they're learning.</p>

<p>The 4-week camps are, I think, for Spanish and French and provide intense instruction including things like role playing.</p>

<p>My older son had done the shorter camps and loved them. His house "father" was a NFL football player who was in grad school learning German. This was about 9 years ago, so I can't remember who the player was.</p>

<p>Chelsea Clinton used to go the camps. They are very reasonably priced.</p>

<p>AmeriSpan has a nice Spanish immersion program in Costa Rica for high school students . I met a Spanish-loving h.s. senior girl who had loved it.</p>

<p>Hmmm. He's going to CTY this summer for his other interest - doing oceanography. He's always been a homebody, this is the first time away. You've just made me think. We've been to Costa Rica, to this day he talks about it. All the species of creatures. At that age he was enthralled by poison dart frogs. Maybe next summer he will want to combine interests ...He's the type I can really imagine in a field research camp somewhere.</p>