Asking girl to prom over the phone...

<p>I really like this girl who I only see at work and school. We talk a lot but don't really hang out. Is it okay to ask her to prom over the phone?</p>

<p>No dude, the acceptable way is in person. Not through IM, not through the phone, not through fax. Person. ;)</p>

<p>I'm with sarorah, do it in person.</p>

<p>You'll scare her if you tell her over the phone. She'll probably try to get away from you or something. Better off in person</p>

<p>okay not to steal the thread, but what if i want to ask someone with really strict parents who has a religious affiliation which might get in the way of her going with me. should i still ask even though she probably wont be able to go?</p>

<p>Is she letting her parents know who she's going out with for prom? if yes, then forget it. if no then ask.</p>

<p>Well, now I have to wait until after srping break so she may get asked during that time. Wait it out?</p>

<p>You don't really hang out with her? Why not start now? Casually, though, and if you're/she's shy, get together with other friends. THEN you have created an opportunity to ask her in person. </p>

<p>But of course it's not as simple as it sounds. You can wait it out if you want, but if she's a hot commodity . . . go for it. NOW.</p>

<p>That's not going to sound too great. Just call her up and ask her to a movie? I think I will call, ask if she wants to go to prom, and if she says yes then ask her to hang out. I don't really understand why everyone is so against the phone thing. If she says no, all I have to say is "Well, I gave it a shot. See you on Monday."</p>

<p>you can but it is much better in person! if u are too shy to straight up ask her leave her a note somewhere around at work where she can find it easily but make sure you are close by so u can see her reaction! good luck!</p>

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<p>That will help you with girls.</p>

<p>I think the phone is okay. If that is all you can do, and if you won't be able to do it another way. Its not ideal, but, if you say " I know this isn't the best way to ask, and I would much rather be able to ask you in person, but would you like to go to the prom with me?" If you address the issue that you realize this isn't the best way to ask, but you don't want to miss your chance, she will understand and in fact appreciate the gesture!!</p>

<p>Good Luck!!</p>

<p>And if she says yes, then say, well lets get together and figure out the details!!!! And take her to dinner</p>

<p>"I don't really understand why everyone is so against the phone thing. If she says no, all I have to say is "Well, I gave it a shot. See you on Monday.""</p>

<p>As a girl, it leaves a better impression on me if a guy has the confidence to ask me in person. I feel like he's hiding something when he asks on the phone--not that he is, of course, but it's just a vibe I get.</p>

<p>What if the relationship with the girl is based mainly off phone conversations (the girl being a friend you talk to mostly on the phone)?</p>

<p>In person, shows confidence, which often implies attractiveness. Avoid the cowardly route and go for it in person!</p>

<p>And to adidasty, ask the girl first. If she says yes, then consider asking her strict parents.</p>

<p>good idea mosby</p>

<p>As a girl, I wouldn't at all mind a guy asking over the phone. Sure, it puts less pressure on you, but I don't think it shows a lack of confidence. It puts less pressure on the girl as well. I'm a strange person, so maybe you shouldn't be taking my advice on this, but I'd be worried about how I look when I react and how exactly I should put my response into words. The phone gives the girl that extra moment to think - which is especially useful if she has strict parents to think about.</p>

<p>Oh good point!</p>

<p>coming from a true playa, you need to do something that will make her say yes for sure. serenade her. you need to do this in a very unique way, nothing thats been known to be done in your respected schools. girls like randomness and guys with a good sense of humor. do something that will make her laugh and love you. something that will get u laid. my suggestion.....ask her to go out on a date with you. tell her you guys are going to the movies but end up at a park where a cnadleight picnic awaits you. pull a rose from behind you and pop the question. another idea, if thats too much....go to her house, ring the doorbell. ask for her. when she comes down, be all....i knew i shouldnt have doe this....and put on ur sunglasses...she will eb what are u talking about. be all, everyone time i look at u, ur beauty blinds me...these shades are a must....and then pop the question with a rose</p>

<p>DISCLAIMER: only do the last one if shes a sucker for corniness</p>

<p>"DISCLAIMER: only do the last one if shes a sucker for corniness"</p>

<p>definitely</p>