<p>so i've been friends with this girl for a while, and i feel like we're both pretty interested in each other. i've been meaning to ask her out somewhere for a while but haven't really gotten the opportunity, and i was maybe thinking of doing something for valentine's day. it's sort of a weird situation because she's never had a boyfriend before and i guess by nature she's not much of an emotional/romantic sort of person, so it's difficult to decide how to get something going while avoiding excessive awkwardness. any advice?</p>
<p>It’s going to be competitive. </p>
<p>Maybe you should spend time with her more and then try making something for her on valentines day.</p>
<p>I have never really understood why anyone asks for dating advice on CC of all places.</p>
<p>I think asking her out on Valentine’s Day is cheesy. Don’t do that.</p>
<p>If she’s mature enough, just tell her you like her and that if she doesn’t like you she should say so to prevent you from liking her more.</p>
<p>Jersey, some of us have had plenty of experience with dating.</p>
<p>nah i’m not too worried about competition; we’re pretty close already. nothing to worry about from that direction. i was planning on making her something relatively platonic-ish for valentine’s day, but i’m not really sure what</p>
<p>Well, I said… you can try spending time with her more and help her out.</p>
<p>Like Fuzzleshnop’s advice, tell her that you like her and see if she thinks of the same way too. Lol</p>
<p>Maybe just get her a heart card and write nice things in it. Or if your school is offering roses for sale for valentines day, try getting one for her and see what she says.</p>
<p>Gosh… these kind of threads just bring an emotional feeling to me. I just wish I deserve something that I deserve to get for my own sweet personality… “love.” But most girls are immature.</p>