<p>Hawkette: Please do remain calm. You are beginning to boil over at a mere difference in perspective. What makes you think that people who see things differently than you do are "myopic?" Or cannot grasp what it is that you are trying to say? Rest assured, we out here in CC land are not as provincial as you would seem to believe. And those of us who reside in the northeast, are anything but. Our kids have wide exposure to virtually everything that is out there, and quite a good understanding of sport, and what that means at a university, or an lac. It is probably true that most of us would not choose our colleges based on it, although some do. Most of us choose on the basis of academics, and what appears to be a good fit. </p>
<p>If one is a great football, basketball, baseball, soccer or lacrosse player, that is quite a different story...and a story I know well, on a personal basis. Also, the high school that my children attended has one of the top ten high school football teams in the US, and consistently sends boys off to DI teams. The players who are top academically (and who do not need scholarship money) will go on to the ivies, or yes, even to DIII teams such as Williams or Amherst over the DI schools. Yes, they will pass up the DI scholarship schools in favor of a stellar academic opportunity, unless they are darn near sure that they will be a drafted player and go on to the pros. Others have gone onto play for those DI scholarship schools, and some have gone onto play for the NFL, and the NBA.</p>
<p>My children attended this school for a total of 16 years. What was it that you said that I don't understand? May I ask on what basis you have ascertained your grasp of the sports scene...not just in one or two schools, but in soooo many? Is it from reading or experience? It would be great for you to elucidate. </p>
<p>Please, before you jump to conclusions about what someone with a different perspective from yours "grasps," know to whom you are speaking. Most of us out here in cc land are fairly forthcoming about the nature of our interest in college life.</p>
<p>Your comment about "hurting my feelings" is kind of ridiculous, don't you think? Using something familiar as one's child's university as a reference point to pose a counter to what you report is something that I call genuine. I try not to speak in nebulous generalities, nor to pretend that I have knowledge of the entire college scene. I speak to you about what I know to be true, and if I have an opinion that is not based on my own knowledge, I state it as such.</p>
<p>You must accept that DI scholarship football is not the only college scene that is social, fun, and spirited. Kids who go to the Ivies, little Ivies; kids who go to basketball schools, and yes, much to your apparent chagrin, kids at Hopkins who absolutely live for lacrosse season, and live for their team's success, are extremely sprited, root for their teams, and love their sports scene as much as anyone...And, BTW...a great high school football game, especially during homecoming is phenomenal, especially when your children and/or his friends are playing.</p>
<p>Furthermore, I speak of Hopkins highly because I know it well and it deserves much praise. Also, I use it as a reference because of my strong familiarity with it. I use it to make a point that you seem not to get...Athletic scenes are different around the country, and certain schools are powerhouses in diverse areas. You seem to think that in terms of spirit, football is the be-all and end-all. I see, again from personal experience, that a school that roots for another sport, especially where that sport is consistently in a championship class, is equally spirited, and (although during a different season) as much fun. Is it ok for me to disagree with you without you getting insulting? </p>
<p>What you seem to forget, because of your (for lack of originality) "myopia," is that we are on the Hopkins pages, speaking to an audience who might be interested in applying to Hopkins. Speaking about what goes on at Hopkins is entirely appropriate, considering our audience. This is the first rule of public speaking 101. And we are "speaking" our minds to those members of the CC public who are interested in what goes on at Hopkins. I am not interested in influencing young people or their concerned families look at this or that, when doing a college search. I am not interested in swaying points of view. I begin no threads to prove any points that might influence the CC audience. </p>
<p>My opinions will generally not appear anywhere but on the Hopkins pages, because it is a wonderful institution, that deserves parental support and praise. I want to share my child's wonderful experiences with anyone who might be interested in the school for his/her own future. To that end, I will not allow purposeful misinformation, or an intentional leading towards a particular biased slant, to go unanswered. Again, we are on the Hopkins' pages, correct?</p>