<p>Your D did a wonderful job of applying to lots of interesting schools that would give her great options! I understand her quandary, as my D had a similar one last year.</p>
<p>The visits will definitely help, and being armed with the right questions will make them even more valuable. As for Bard, that was on my D’s list until very late in the game last year. She, too, really loved the intellectual atmosphere and the general vibe she got there. She also felt that the theatre and arts programs were exciting and rich - a very high quality BA experience. As for “moderating” into a major, we had a long talk about that with our two tour guides and the admissions people. You do not wait to start classes in the major; on the contrary, you take classes in that area so that when you moderate, there can be a discussion about whether they fit your needs or whether you might want to make changes based on what you have learned. We did not consider the moderation process to be anything but an opportunity for a student to grow and find the right path for him/herself. I do recall researching the “not enough room” rumor about Bard’s classes - mostly this is due to the high popularity of their photography classes; virtually every other major has plenty of space.</p>
<p>You will find out more than we ever did, since we did not revisit. But I will remark that the reasons my D decided against Bard in the end were personal, and because she was accepted to other schools that outweighed them. After a long, deep look at the Bard theatre curriculum, my D saw that while Acting, directing, writing, and of course theatre history and literature were plentiful, there were almost no theatre design classes (including in the visual arts dept). For her, design classes were very important, as playwriting is for your D. While you probably you learn some design by being involved in shows, this seemed to be a case where a smaller school sometimes just can’t provide everything. She also much preferred close city access, or at least a decent-sized town, and Bard really is quite isolated. She was concerned that if she didn’t feel comfortable there, she had no outlet and would feel trapped. But she ended up feeling this way about all of the LACs on her list - and all of them that we visited - so by the end of senior year it was very unlikely she would choose a small LAC in the country, no matter how good its programs were.</p>
<p>Eventually she had 3 larger schools as her top choices, all with good city access. But that choice also was very hard. They had varied costs, varied theatre offerings, and varied approaches to liberal arts. She chose not to revisit any of them - too costly and no time with school commitments - so she studied the curriculum, made potential 4-year courses of study at each school, and made lists of attributes, weighing each one as personally as she could. Finally all she could do was follow her heart, not think too far ahead, and ask the ultimate question: Where do you want to be in September? Which of these options seems the right one to try, even if you might decide to transfer?</p>
<p>She decided that the curriculum that called to her was the BFA (with the Honors College for liberal arts), and that she wanted to go to an auditioned program while she had the chance. It has been hard there, and it hasn’t been perfect, but now that we are almost through the first year, I would say that she has had the experience that was right for her. She always wanted a BFA, and the non-curricular deficits in this school (which were positives at the BA schools) have been eclipsed by the great work she has been able to do.</p>
<p>Of her last 4 choices, including Bard, another glaring issue was cost. It happened that for her, the BFA and one BA were extremely inexpensive, and the two other BAs were the opposite. While we urged her to make her choice independent of finances - and she was fortunate she could - she was well aware that she would be even more unhappy at a school that not only wasn’t a good fit but was also very costly. We have been able to make up for some of the lifestyle deficits of the school she chose because it is costing us very little for her to go there (since it’s not really in a city, we pay for her train tickets so she can to to NYC whenever she wants, for example). When she realized in the end that this decision is often as much a gamble as a studied choice, she felt better taking a chance on the school where the financial stakes were lower.</p>