<p>hey, so, here's an idea: how about we (meaning current students or recent grads) stick to trying to answer the OP's question? She's asking what stereotypes exist, how they're perpetuated, and to what extent they're true. I have a few quick thoughts on the matter.</p>
<p>1. Zdub is doing some yeoman's work here as Humor Enforcer. Good show, I say.</p>
<p>2. M/F Ratio. Yeah, it's about 2-to-1, especially when you take the queers of all types out of the equation[1]. The end result is that (A) every guy can get laid, even geeky engineers, and (B) some girls go way off campus to find men, including other boroughs or people they meet from various city-life activities. I'm very thankful for (A).</p>
<p>2B. Rivalry. McCafferty's quote in the OP's post is actually just about perfectly analyzed. In my experience, actual hostility between the student bodies is basically 95% on the female side. The guys make jokes[2], as they do about anything, but at the end of the day don't really care what side of broadway their <em>ahem</em> bread is buttered on. But with Columbia girls there is a "those b*tches are stealing our men" undertone to a lot of the comments. People do tend to hang out with those from their own school, just by the nature of who they tend to meet, but nearly every barnard girl has at least one columbia girl friend and vice versa. Several dozen from each side every year choose to live in housing with people from the other group. And of course women's athletic teams are joint.</p>
<p>3. Selectivity. Most Barnard girls I knew had applied to Columbia, and most didn't get in. Many later say they wouldn't reverse the decision now if they could, that they prefer Barnard to Columbia. Whether that's rationalization of their rejection or a true passionate community spirit, I'm not able to say.</p>
<p>4. Chillness. The one difference between student bodies that I will remark on is that Barnard girls, in my experience, are more chill. They take themselves less seriously, are much less likely to be b*tches, and are generally friendlier. There is no lack of chill Columbia girls, mind you, just that we are speaking about averages.</p>
<p>Footnotes:
[1] ooh, whoops, I just perpetuated the "gays like New York" stereotype
[2] C02's point that these stereotypes are "dangerously over-applied" is generally understood by the student body, but perhaps not by outsiders (Such as moms, <em>cough</em>). i.e., students make jokes about having "Barn-dar" (being able to intuit when a girl is from Barnard, a la Gaydar), but don't hold anything against anyone. Meanwhile, the first mention of such jokes to an outsider will usually arouse anger or an accusation that you're somehow biased. Not the case.</p>