<p>Hahahahahahaha. I know countless magna cum laude top 15% type kids at Ivies who NEVER stayed in on a weekend night except during finals/ midterms. </p>
<p>Parents are so clueless.</p>
<p>I think its absolutely fine to choose a college on the social life/ envorinment. The academics are tops at all of these schools (we are talking Ivies!), but the social scenes vary considerably. I transferred for social reasons and it was the best decision I have ever made. I think not caring enough about the social life is the biggest mistake you can make. You only go to college once. I learned so much from my classmates outside of the classroom. A diligent student will do well anywhere, its silly to think you can't manage grades with a life. Sure some take it too far, but that is far from everyone.</p>
<p>As for my personal ability to attest to ivies social life: Attended Dartmouth and Columbia for a total of six years (3 Dart, 3 Columbia...two grad school, one first year), visited Brown five weekends (incl. 3 spring weekends), Harvard at least 4 weekends, Yale two weekends, Princeton (weekend), Penn ( spring fling), Cornell (weekend). </p>
<p>Location:
Harvard (Cambridge is full of life + boston + has a real campus)
Brown (East Providence is great and fun + close to things + real campus)</p>
<p>Academics:
Princeton: Complete access to top profs. The best.
Dartmouth: Hardly any TAs, Profs love teaching, tons of grants, study abroad, etc. A very strong prof in a smaller classroom seems with attention on undergrads seems to be a winning formula.
Cornell: Sciences are top notch, rigourous
Penn: Wharton is amazing for business</p>
<p>Social Life:
Dartmouth: Princeton w/o pretention. Everyone loves the place, it feels like mardi gras on the weekends, everyone goes to the parties, and there are 3-4 major parties plus tons of house parties/ etc on the weekends. Great size, you know many people but not everyone.</p>
<p>Penn: Bigger campus so its less inclusive and you know less people, but its crazy active on the weekends. Good for the people who want to skip this and head into Philly.</p>
<p>Success Rate:
Depends on so much. What your interested in, how you apply yourself, what environment suits you.</p>