<p>“Bullet, before you conclude how difficult that internship was, I would suggest you try doing it. Try going 10 weeks without sleep, working impossible hours and constantly being evaluated on your work product. I don’t know what Navy Seals go through but it can’t be more mentally challenging.” </p>
<p>Goldenpooch, please re-read my statement. I did not say that what your son went through wasn’t brutally challenging and extremely difficult. He did accomplish something you have have every right to be proud of as a parent. </p>
<p>As to my qualifications to have the right to tell that you were a little overzealous in your pride when you compared his experience to the training the SEALS go through, and your statement that I should “try doing it”. Well, your pretty new here, and I haven’t posted for a long time, so you probably aren’t familiar with my background. I’ll just say that “Yes, I HAVE DONE a few things as challenging, and more so”. Things like engaging in combat several times, to include a 6-month stint in Baghdad in 2004 where I commanded over 220 Airmen on the ground throughout Iraq directing the air coverage for the entire theater. 6 months of 18-20 hour days, 7 days a week without a single day off the entire time I was there, responsible for every bomb, bullet, missile daily employed in support of troops in direct combat with the enemy, to include the Battles of Falujah and Najaf. Directly reporting daily to folk like Lt Gen Sanchez and sometimes briefing folks higher than him. 6 months of the most challenging “projects” to ensure the mission was accomplished and the safety of those I commanded and the troops they supported. I screwed up and PEOPLE DIED, or the wrong people trying to kill our troops lived to kill more Americans another day. And let’s not forget the rocket, mortar, and small arms fire attacks I encountered quite often, sometimes in those few short hours I tried to catch some sleep. So yeah, I “tried it”, and then some.</p>
<p>And you know what, I had it EASY compared to the guys in direct combat. Much easier. And in full disclosure, while I did NOT go through SEAL training myself, I was good friends and neighbors with guys who did. I heard their stories, so I do have the background to say their experiences in that training was a little tougher than what your son went through. Both mentally and physically. And that was NOTHING compared to what they went through in combat these past couple of decades.</p>
<p>Be proud of your son’s internship. He does deserve the praise. But comparing it to perhaps the toughest training program in the US Military smacks the same as when celebrities like Tom Cruise and Kanye West say their latest projects were like preparing for combat. It isn’t, and is insulting to those that have been there.</p>
<p>“I am not saying women can’t cope with extreme stress as well as men, although in this case it was very traumatic for the one female intern. One reason, however, why there may not be as many women as men in this business is because women may not be interested in pursuing a career where you have no personal life.”</p>
<p>So, men are more acceptable towards not having a personal life? Perhaps it is THIS attitude and sexist belief (“men are better suited and more willing to put up with the stress and lack of a life outside of the job than women”) that prevents women from being hired more often for positions like this.</p>