Okay answering your questions, someone feel free to add on since I might not be entirely right, this is just based off of my personal experience.
Your chances of being accepted based on being good at sports is not that important. Sure, having some stats on your profile is good, great even, but it does not solidify your chance of getting accepted, its merely an extra advantage point.
Yes, grades do matter a little. I mean, don’t count on getting in to places like Andover or Exeter if you have Ds and Fs all over your report cards. Having a solid GPA, like you, will make you as good as the other applicants out there, nothing more, nothing less.
Extracurriculars are the same, the more the better if you must, and you still have to have some to a certain amount. Boarding schools are looking for student that are interested in many things and are well rounded when it comes to things outside of just academics.
Don’t worry about having MANY awards. I didn’t have a lot but I still managed to get into one of the top schools out there. And yes, school awards are good to, write them down in your application if you can.
The SSAT is a test with 3 parts, Verbal, Mathematics, and Reading. You take it all in one day. I don’t quite remember how exactly it functions but just google search that up and everything your’e wondering about should pop up right then and there.
Tips for the SSAT:
Use books like Princeton Review(?) and such, they will help you a bit.
Don’t just go in there and wing it, make sure you know what your’e doing and be prepared.
Get a good night’s sleep and be awake and aware.
Also, bring a snack (apples, or tangerines) and a bottle of water in a plastic bag to eat during the break.
Don’t bring a digital watch, a regular clockwork watch is fine though (also know that your phone will be taken away during testing)
No, you do not have to pay back FA. It’s kind of like a scholarship, the school is giving you a certain amount off of your tuition.
Tips:
Seek out the essay questions and write down some ideas whenever you can on the topics. I wrote my best essay on a walk back from school! Don’t be frazzled over them, but also don’t take them so lightly. Make sure to ABSOLUTELY UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES NEVER TO PROCRASTINATE UNTIL JANUARY 9TH. Trust me, you’ll have a mental breakdown if you do. Try to finish by latest end of December. Essays are your only opportunity to show the schools what kind of person you are, besides interviews. It’s okay to have people help you, like spell checking and advice, but please don’t be one of those people who have others basically write 99.9% of it. The school’s are interested in you, not your parents or your english tutor.
Speaking of interviews, be prepared for these also. I don’t quite remember how my interviews went, but be relaxed and calm, have a basic idea of what topics you want to ask about and what they’ll ask you (if your’e interested in that, theres about 100 different forums on that topic so, search away!) Dress neat but not overdressed, I like to go for a skirt and a nice shirt with some flats (DO NOT wear heels, since you’ll probably be taking a tour before the interview, and some of those campuses, per say Andover, are HUGE. Like if you were going to dinner with your grandparents at a nice restaurant.
That’s about it, sorry I think I got carried away a bit.
But I do wish the best for you and your application process! Don’t get stressed out and take everything at an even pace, there will be some moments where you’ll think that you should give up but I promise that it’s worth it in the end.
All the best,
Yoonicorn