BU safe for girls?

<p>Hey I applied for this upcoming fall. Visited and loved the city atmosphere, but lots of recent news coming out of bu has made me very nervous.</p>

<p>1) 2 different hockey players at bu have been arrested. One for sexual assault and one for rape. I can just imagine how many more cases there are that go unreported. I know things happen at college campuses and its terrible that they do, but now we are talking about 2 people in a sample group of 30. Is this a hockey team problem? An athletics problem? An institutional problem?
[Boston</a> University hockey star Max Nicastro charged with rape - The Boston Globe](<a href=“http://www.boston.com/sports/colleges/mens_hockey/articles/2012/02/20/boston_university_hockey_star_max_nicastro_charged_with_rape/?p1=Well_Sports_links]Boston”>http://www.boston.com/sports/colleges/mens_hockey/articles/2012/02/20/boston_university_hockey_star_max_nicastro_charged_with_rape/?p1=Well_Sports_links)</p>

<p>2) Peeping Tom issues. Its been reported in the student news paper multiple times now. Guys placing cell phones under the showers of the female communal bathrooms. I have never heard of this going on anywhere else.
[?Peeping</a> Tom? reported in Warren Towers | The Daily Free Press](<a href=“http://dailyfreepress.com/2012/02/18/peeping-tom-reported-in-warren-towers/]?Peeping”>http://dailyfreepress.com/2012/02/18/peeping-tom-reported-in-warren-towers/)</p>

<p>3) Seems like lots of mugging on the western part of campus/Alston (also Daily Free Press articles).</p>

<p>4) The Craigslist killer went to the Med School, which i seemed to have only just found out about (the catalyst for me starting a thread actually)</p>

<p>All of this together makes me really wonder whether BU is really making moves to make sure students are safe. It has now been an entire year of these issues. BU is 65% female and I dont know if people are targeting it because of this or if guys are just able to get away with a lot since they are only 35% of the population but I would love to hear any opinions.</p>

<p>I’m a female and have had absolutely no issues. I don’t fear the hockey players/getting assaulted when I walk down the street. It is unfortunate that this is happening to the team and of course the victims, but I don’t think that because they are BU students, you should reconsider going here. It could happen to anyone, at any school. </p>

<p>The only thing that is really odd is the peeping tom issue–it definitely occurs on other campuses, it just has been happening recently at BU. </p>

<p>Let’s be real, the Craigslist killer did not kill because he was a BU student. Nor did the incident take place on campus. This was also several years ago. </p>

<p>We’re in a city environment–things are going to happen. It’s just about being safe as you walk home at night, stay in groups, and don’t walk down a dark alleyway at 2 am. I don’t think “lots of mugging” is accurate.</p>

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<p>This is a ridiculous statement.</p>

<p>The easiest way to ensure your safety on a college campus, or anywhere else for that matter, is to not be impaired, ie. under the influence of drugs or alcohol, and to be alert and aware of your surroundings. My daughter is a freshman at BU, lives on West campus and has never felt unsafe, despite coming from a very suburban environment. That said, BU is a large school in an urban environment, stuff is going to happen. You just need to be cognizant of that fact and stay alert when you are out and about.</p>

<p>And I agree with the above, that statement is ridiculous.</p>

<p>My daughter is a freshman also - she doesn’t normally travel at night alone, and has never had any concern about safety. We were talking about alcohol the other day - she said that she has seen extremely minimal abuse in West or on the BU “campus”, but does see drunk people walking in Back Bay on Commonwealth coming from Allston. Boston has lots of college students all over, so this is not the least bit surprising to me. I think the reason that you are hearing a lot about BU is that it is both a very large school (thus, more incidents are a given) and you are interested in it, so your antenna are up. I think administration is pretty on top of things. Every college has peeping toms, rapes, theft, and bad seeds - just like your own town.</p>

<p>I mean I am looking at other schools, other D1 schools too and this kind of stuff just does not seem to be happening at those places. My question, is there really a jock culture that needs to be changed?<br>
[BU</a> hockey team needs to change its jock culture - The Boston Globe](<a href=“http://www.boston.com/bostonglobe/editorial_opinion/oped/articles/2012/02/23/bu_hockey_team_needs_to_change_its_jock_culture/?p1=News_links]BU”>http://www.boston.com/bostonglobe/editorial_opinion/oped/articles/2012/02/23/bu_hockey_team_needs_to_change_its_jock_culture/?p1=News_links)</p>

<p>Also the peeping tom is back again
[Third</a> Peeping Incident in a Month | BU Today | Boston University](<a href=“http://www.bu.edu/today/2012/third-peeping-incident-in-a-month/]Third”>http://www.bu.edu/today/2012/third-peeping-incident-in-a-month/)</p>

<p>I get that crime exists on campus and exists everywhere. However these two issues are not things that I am coming across when I research or visit other schools. I am just looking for insight. My previous “statements” were meant to be questions and I am sorry if I failed to be more clear about that. That said I am more concerned about going to BU than I was last month and I would be surprised if I am the only one in that boat.</p>

<p>There really isn’t a jock culture at BU…hockey is the only sport that many people focus on. To be honest, there aren’t even that many people into that.
I do not worry about peeping toms or getting raped by a hockey player. I go to all the games, and I don’t think this speaks for the team as a whole. Girls idolize athletes everywhere.</p>

<p>“Girls idolize athletes everywhere” relates to a discussion of campus safety and/or sexual assault in what mysterious way?</p>

<p>Should’ve applied to BC…</p>

<p>As a BU student, I can assure you that BU is not unsafe. Also, it does not have anything resembling a “Jock culture.” Hockey is the most followed sport at the school, but the general interest in sports (and players) is fairly low. To be honest, I have walked alone on Comm Ave at night countless times, and never felt in danger. Comm Ave is a well lit six-lane street with a lot of pedestrians. </p>

<p>As for the Peeping Tom incident, I’ve heard people talking about it, but I think that has more to do with how unusual such as incidents are. And while I can’t pretend I don’t occasionally see drunk people on and around campus, they are 99.9% BU students.</p>

<p>Overall, I can say that I find BU an extremely safe environment for girls (if nothing else, we outnumber them, haha). I understand that they are going to have an inquiry into the culture of the hockey team itself, but that is another matter entirely.</p>

<p>"“Girls idolize athletes everywhere” relates to a discussion of campus safety and/or sexual assault in what mysterious way?"</p>

<p>Because the recent sexual assault cases have had to do with athletes, and the poster speaking about “jock culture” seemed like he/she was inferring that the hockey players are like gods on campus. </p>

<p>However, like the poster above, I feel safe at BU.</p>

<p>Sorry guys. I think BU is officially off my list. Good luck to everyone!</p>

<p>[Assault</a> charges and Facebook fracas leave BU administrators soul-searching - The Boston Globe](<a href=“http://www.boston.com/news/local/massachusetts/articles/2012/02/25/assault_charges_and_facebook_fracas_leave_bu_administrators_soul_searching/?p1=News_links]Assault”>http://www.boston.com/news/local/massachusetts/articles/2012/02/25/assault_charges_and_facebook_fracas_leave_bu_administrators_soul_searching/?p1=News_links)</p>

<p>Debate at BU extends to safety</p>

<p>A controversy that began with the arrests of two Boston University ice hockey players on sexual assault charges has mushroomed into a broader debate about women’s safety after a recent graduate called the school’s behavioral health hot line late at night and found only what she called “a useless loop of automated menus.’’</p>

<p>The school, roiled by the assault charges, is forming a task force to investigate its hockey culture. Administrators said the hot line issue stemmed from a misunderstanding and they immediately took steps to remedy it.</p>

<p>“We don’t take a passive or laissez-faire approach,’’ said Margaret Ross, BU’s head of behavioral medicine, noting that the school offers a wide variety of resources, including two highly trained on-call crisis counselors, one of whom counseled the woman who accused a hockey player of rape this week.</p>

<p>But women’s advocates at BU said bigger changes would be needed to address a pervasive “rape culture’’ at the school, one they said was exemplified by recent comments by longtime hockey coach Jack Parker.</p>

<p>In an interview with the Globe Thursday, Parker said he would cooperate with the task force but he doubted campus culture could be changed dramatically.</p>

<p>“It’s certainly different than it was in the ’70s. Sexual mores have changed,’’ he said. “There’s girls on every floor; there’s no men’s and women’s dorms. The idea that hooking up is OK - I don’t think that term was even used in the 1970s. . . . Ninety-nine percent of these problems start with alcohol and sex. That’s a bad combination.’’</p>

<p>Ross said she disagreed that the culture could not be changed.</p>

<p>“The most important concern is that every student should feel safe and cared for. Anything that interferes with that is something BU needs to address actively,’’ she said. “It’s not just ‘boys will be boys.’ That’s not OK at this university. It should never be OK.’’</p>

<p>Parker’s comments enraged undergraduate volunteers at BU’s Center for Gender, Sexuality, and Activism.</p>

<p>“Let me try not to use expletives,’’ said Ariana Katz, a senior who co-directs the center. “He’s saying that boys will be boys, and it’s alcohol’s fault, and rape is happening because there are women everywhere? No. These assaults and his response tarnish every single hockey trophy BU has ever won.’’</p>

<p>Katz said she welcomed the school’s new hockey task force but she said the problem extends beyond athletics. For instance, since Jan. 22, three female students have reported that someone tried to film them with a cellphone while they were in dormitory showers.</p>

<p>On Tuesday, junior Max Nicastro pleaded not guilty to two counts of rape that allegedly occurred on campus Sunday; in December, senior Corey Trivino pleaded not guilty to charges of sexual assault.</p>

<p>The BU women’s center, in a statement Thursday night, called on BU to hire a new staff member focused on helping sexual assault survivors, to provide educational sessions for “all coaches, student athletes, faculty, and student leaders,’’ and to immediately expel students convicted of rape and sexual assault.</p>

<p>The statement coincided with a storm on Facebook after a note written by Allison Francis, who graduated last year, went viral.</p>

<p>Francis said she was unsatisfied with the announcement of the hockey task force and wanted to broaden the debate. Late Wednesday night, she called a behavioral medicine hot line listed on BU’s website and asked “what resources are available in terms of rape and sexual assault?’’</p>

<p>The emergency operator, she said, failed to inquire about her well-being, told her “we don’t have anything like that here,’’ and advised her to call a different medical hot line, which referred her back to the first number.</p>

<p>Francis described the call in a note on Facebook.</p>

<p>Shortly after the posting hit the Internet, BU administrators began investigating.</p>

<p>Ross said the confusion arose from the operator’s belief that “the caller was asking for immediate medical help, like a rape kit. So the operator gave her the medical emergency number. Had she called back and said, ‘What I need is help for a sexual assault and I need to speak to someone,’ she would have been put through to a counselor right away.’’</p>

<p>From now on, Ross said, operators have been instructed to first ask callers if they are in danger, then connect them directly to counselors at any mention of sexual assault.</p>

<p>At other schools where sexual misconduct has been in the headlines lately, such as Colby College in Maine, students have used such case as jumping-off points for campuswide debates about sex, safety, policy, and personal responsibility.</p>

<p>There was evidence that the same process was beginning at BU. The Center for Gender, Sexuality, and Activism scheduled several public forums on sexual assault for next week, and students were discussing the issues in a meeting with a dean, as well as on Twitter with the hashtags #BUconvo and #proudtoBU.</p>

<p>Francis said she was glad to see a discussion beginning.</p>

<p>“In order to actually be proud to be BU students, we have to work on the issues,’’ she said. “I think it’s really important to keep pressure on the administration. The conversation can’t end here.’’</p>

<p>Anyone else get the feeling that Caligurl100 is a ■■■■■? Her only posts on CC are this thread.</p>

<p>In all honesty, this happens just as much at any other school. You should feel safer considering the fact that BU is advertising the fact that these things are happening, and the school is trying to make students aware of these possibilities. While other schools would just hide it and pretend nothing is wrong, bu is acknowledging it so it’s students can be more aware and stay safe.</p>

<p>^ Here’s some more awareness for ya’ . . . its one thing to acknowledge an issue, its another thing to change it, or the behavior . . .</p>

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<p>You guys are right totally not the culture…:/</p>

<p>[Boston</a> University’s Daily Free Press Releases a Less-Than-Funny April Fools’ Issue About Sexual Assault | BostInno](<a href=“http://bostinno.com/2012/04/02/boston-universitys-daily-free-press-releases-a-less-than-funny-april-fools-issue-about-sexual-assault/]Boston”>http://bostinno.com/2012/04/02/boston-universitys-daily-free-press-releases-a-less-than-funny-april-fools-issue-about-sexual-assault/)</p>

<p>[BU</a> student newspaper’s April Fools’ edition angers students - Metro Desk - Local news updates from The Boston Globe](<a href=“http://www.boston.com/Boston/metrodesk/2012/04/student-newspaper-april-fools-edition-angers-students/mWTRbdM7idTKApwhRWHzUJ/index.html]BU”>http://www.boston.com/Boston/metrodesk/2012/04/student-newspaper-april-fools-edition-angers-students/mWTRbdM7idTKApwhRWHzUJ/index.html)</p>

<p>okay i need to defend my school here. i have never once felt unsafe walking alone past midnight from one end of comave to the other. it’s literally always lit and generally has people around. </p>

<p>as for this article posted by caligurl:Assault charges and Facebook fracas leave BU administrators soul-searching - The Boston Globe</p>

<p>i read it months ago and it’s a real piece of crap. they blatantly put words in jack parker’s mouth and otherwise tried to twist around what he was quoted as saying…some journalism.</p>

<p>the peeping tom thing is a little weird, i admit. and right in my building too D: :P</p>

<p>as for the hockey players…the first one wasn’t even so much as attempted rape. he was pretty much just trashed and tried to hit on a girl (who repeatedly let him into her room)…ok. pretty much my friend’s dream scenario. whatever. the second one…idk. but so far that’s one alleged rape on a campus of thousands of guys. can’t be unusually high statistically. not a “culture”.</p>

<p>the april fool’s jokes. okay yes they were crude and semi-■■■■■■■■. but they really weren’t…THAT crude. only really in bad taste after all this talk of rape culture has popped up in recent months.</p>

<p>Yeah, I agree with poisonglamour. Literally never felt unsafe on campus, and you’ve clearly never experienced life at BU if you think that there’s a “rape culture.” I still love the hockey team, and will continue to support the Terriers.</p>