<p>"What I’m saying is that for us Generation Y psychos, the damage is in the process of not making it. Certainly some come away unscathed, others can be quite badly messed up. It would be nice if musical education at all but the top conservatories actively discouraged notions of “making it” and focused on a liberal arts education- learning how to think and communicate with the topic of music as a shared interest, as it is in other majors. "</p>
<p>I hear what you are saying, and like GH I think there are a lot of hopes being raised that aren’t necessarily true, that there are schools selling the idea that students going there will come out and be ready to compete as musicians, and in a lot of cases it may be a pipe dream (as a hypothetical, kid gets into an non-audition program on violin, and they sell him on the idea he will be a top soloist, odds are greater an NFL team would sign me at my age to play). Even at the top conservatories, there are unrealistic dreams driving kids, talented kids going there with the attitude they are going to be a star soloist, that they will waltz into a major orchestra, etc…from what I am seeing, though, the schools have been a lot more realistic with the kids, with required classes talking about how a musician works, the reality, so I think some of the attitudes are changing (the teachers, on the other hand, well, I wonder what planet some of them live on…). </p>
<p>That said, I think the idea that liberal arts core classes are going to get rid of the angst and so forth is a bit unrealistic in of itself. I know universities spread the gospel that the core courses make people broader, it turns them into lifelong learners, etc, and I think that has been oversold, to be honest. I am not saying colleges should be trade schools focused on ‘practical’ knowledge, what I am saying is the core course structure is such that a lot of it is about kids simply doing the classes to get through a roadblock, like “well, that course is pretty easy, I hear there is a midterm and a term paper and it gets me out of my non western civ requirement”. </p>
<p>To be even more blunt, if kids have unrealistic expectations and get into the angst and damage like that, the problem is in no small part on them as well, because it means they went into this without looking at the reality. In this day of the internet, with sites like CC and all that is out there, it doesn’t take a lot to find out what it is like for music students out there, what the reality of making it is. Read anything about orchestra auditions, and you will hear for any kind of decent program, 150 people are auditioning for that slot; read about being a pianist, and read about the influx of incredibly talented people into the field playing at incredible levels…</p>
<p>What is interesting to me is I have talked to kids who think they want to go into music, when I ask them their take on ‘making it’ in rock or pop music, they say “oh, that is so difficult, it means a lot of years of frustration, playing gigs in dingy bars, etc, etc”…but yet because unlike rock/pop music classical music has college level programs, they can’t see it is the same thing. Maybe the difference is that kids who go the rock/pop route, because they don’t have the degree, don’t assume they will make it, and when they see they aren’t going anywhere say “ya know, time to pack it up and find something I can do to live”. Whereas maybe the kids who are so damaged are so because they have the degree from the music program and believed that would be the magic ticket (btw, this doesn’t matter whether it is Juilliard or a generic school of music someplace) and then face the reality, I don’t know. </p>
<p>It is why I stress when kids write on here about chances of making it in music, that getting a music degree, while valuable, doesn’t guarantee much, and that if going into they see something they might rather be doing, that that might be the better path if they cannot face a really tough road. If they have that kind of passion for music, know what they are getting into, then try it, but always have an eye on reality, too, and have some thoughts of a gameplan if your original plan doesn’t work. I think what concerns me is this idea that the angst and damage is somehow special to music, or that people don’t face brick walls doing other things, that is the reality even if you have done the liberal arts route or even went for a specific field. I had lunch the other day with an old friend, who is a business analyst working in a large financial firm, and she is facing issues with dealing with corporate life and how dead that can be, but having the reality of kids and a mortgage to pay…the idea that the problem is because music schools are too narrow or set the kids up to fail, while has grains of truth, is also the reality of most things in life, and in reality, what the kids who face that angst or whatever have is with life skills, like recognizing futility, recognizing where something isn’t working and changing direction, and that is true across the spectrum. Thoreau wrote many years ago that most men led lives of quiet desperation, and in large party this is what he referred to.</p>