<p>I think that given the crapshoot element of the process, and the number of inexplicable rejection stories I've heard at our school this year, I want to agree strongly with AtlantaMom. I think that it makes a great deal of sense to apply to a large number of schools since admissions outcomes seem to have become increasingly unpredictable.</p>
<p>My kid had what we considered a very balanced list. There was one absolute safety that she really didn't want to attend, four schools in the safety to match range all of which I felt could have served her very well in every way, one school that was somewhere between a match and a reach because of its reputation for erratic admissions practices, and six schools which are reaches for everyone but where we thought it was reasonable for her to apply given her grades, scores, and very strong, academically-related EC. She's at a grade-deflated prep that traditionally sends maybe a quarter to a of its class to Ivies plus SM, and it is common for those kids to have some A minuses and even B pluses. We had access to excellent statistics as to how kids in her gpa category had fared in admissions various schools over the years, which helped us formulate the list.</p>
<p>The schools on the list did not all look alike in terms of size; core versus open curriculum; or setting. After visiting a number of schools, we concluded that there is no one true way for my kid, and that in general, many people who could be happy academically and socially at Cal could also be happy socially and academically at a small women's college. I don't think it's fair to conclude that a student who applies to several Ivies that are quite dissimilar in a number of important ways has not considered fit.</p>
<p>Ultimately D was accepted into all of the safety-matches and the match/reach, but into only one of the clear reaches, the rest of which were distributed between rejections and wait lists. The school where she was accepted is an HYPSM and statistically speaking is harder to get into than a couple of her wait list schools. Go figure. Throw into the mix the fact that D had in one case worked with and in another met extensively with faculty in her area at a couple of the reaches who offered to write strong letters on her behalf. (This included the school where she applied early, where she was deferred and ultimately rejected.) At the school that accepted her, there had been no such faculty involvement. </p>
<p>Had we limited D to six applications, she would certainly be attending an excellent school, but she would likely have whittled down the reaches to the schools where she already knew and liked the faculty she'd be working with for the next four years, and who supported her application -- and she would have ended up at one of her matches.</p>
<p>And I must say that if her gpa had not been above a 4., which let us feel safe with several of her colleges given her school's history with them, and given what I know now about the many outstanding students (merit finalists, original research, competition winners) who have not seen the anticipated outcomes this year, it would have been smart to add more matches -- maybe a lot more. </p>
<p>Finally, I don't think it's fair to assume that if a student with stellar grades/scores/EC's has a disappointing outcome, it must be because he's dull or he didn't put time into his application or he thought he could rest on his laurels and didn't take an active role in the process or he was somehow flawed. We're all looking to make sense of this process. We try to help our kids pick a reasonable list of schools and encourage them to present themselves to admissions committees in the best light. We go into this knowing that athletes and students who are economically disadvantaged or URM's will receive a boost, as will students whose parents can and will donate huge sums, but that none of these hooks is a shoe in. But we still end up sitting around shaking our heads, unable to comprehend how some kids who are clearly so excellent end up, for want of a better term, shafted while unhooked kids who don't seem to meet the same criteria of excellence fare better. It makes a whole lot more sense if we let ourselves believe that the kid who appears to have been shafted actually has something wrong with him whereas the kid who seems to have fared better for no apparent reason has some hidden, alluring strength that the ad com somehow ferretted out.</p>
<p>The problem is, at least IMHO, that this belief has no particular connection to reality. When I think about a couple of kids from our school who were flat out rejected at the HYPSM where my D was accepted, my jaw drops. I mean, if her application had such compelling, hidden alluring strengths that it trumped those kids' academic perfection (and no, they weren't dull, smelly, or bizarre), then why didn't it propell her through the gates of her other five reaches, especially where faculty wanted her? And to my mind, the element of randomness and unpredictability is such that students should hedge their bets, which means a lot of applications in the slight to high reach range, in addition to clear safety schools. I know that D is wonderful, but I'm thinking that maybe acceptances and rejections of kids who meet the hard number criteria of the low-acceptance-rate colleges where they apply may have more to do with luck than wonderfulness.</p>