<p>I got admitted to both and I'm having a tough time choosing between the 2. I've always wanted to go to UCLA because Cal is the stereotype of the asian engineer nerd and I want to break away from that, and UCLA is the next best thing. However, the prestige of Cal is something I really don't want to give up, and my parents and relatives all want me to go. If I go to Cal, will I be able to have a social life? I know some people doing EECS there, and they seem fine and they aren't complete nerds, contrary to many accounts of what I've heard.</p>
<p>Anyone have any insight on the social life, prestige, difficulty, campus environment, or general happiness in both campuses, good and bad?</p>