Op here. Thanks for everyone’s input. I’ve already done quite a bit of research. I 've run the NPCs and also scoured the financial aid threads.and have been over them with a fine tooth comb so to speak. Unfortunately the airfare aspect for out of state colleges is an added cost. I realize that gas is a cost also when you are driving 6-8 hours but still not as much as airfare. We may end up needing to send him to Kentucky or Alabama in the end but just wanted to see if anyone thought applying to an ivy even made any sense.
mathmom- Thanks for the suggestion of focusing on the essay. I’m sure that makes sense no matter where he applies to.