I applied ED to Cornell this year and got deferred. Just going off of acceptance rate alone if you are set on an ivy, Cornell and Brown have the higher acceptance rates. I did not have an SAT score submitted and I know that even though they are test-optional it is a plus. My academic profile is similar to yours (maybe a little stronger because of five languages and a dual high school diploma) but your ECs are very impressive. I had similar awards. It also depends on if you’re applying for aid.
I’m applying for aid but I’m not international and AFAIK Cornell is need-blind.
Edit: Also I saw that you were planning to major in Economics, did you by any chance apply to Dyson? That may be why you got deferred.
Engineering has a much lower acceptance rate for males vs females. For CAS its about the same.
Are you from an underrepresented ethnic/minority group? If so that could help even more. If you are a NY state resident then CALS would be the best choice.