Changing Mind about ED

<p>He didn't give me them to me (gave me his im and # tho) and I dont know his last name....but first name was james and he's graduating in about a year...dark blackish hair (it was shaggy and longish...still short tho). Think green or blue eyes. Maybe you can find him. He was really out there...wore a black cape (sweater capish thing) or something and kept lighting cigarettes then putting them out every minute cause it was against the rules….not sure what he read…def. went over my head…something about strangers and a drinking party…idk…it was real weird. he was really eccentric u know?</p>

<p>If you met him you’d go back on ED too. I didn’t know about the library thing at yale and all that at the time, and i’m kinda upset now but not angry. i've literally tied my phone to my jeans in case he calls. never even cared about guys till i met this one. and that was recently.</p>

<p>and thanks onegoodgirl.</p>

<p>rofl he was wearing a cape?</p>

<p>ya...like one of those short victorian capes. it was really cool.</p>

<p>haha he sounds like the kind of guy who sits and plays dungeons and dragons 22 hours a day</p>

<p>lol, guess he kinda sounds like that. he wasn't though. he was like...idk...bohemian or something...not the computer nerd type...i thought he was gay cause he had amazing taste in clothes...but i guess he wasn't</p>

<p>Wait, wait, wait... </p>

<p>This guy who wooed you and made you rethink your ED decision was wearing a cape when you met? Oh boy. </p>

<p>And tobacco is wacko</p>

<p>he's amazing, dave, cape and all. I wish i had photo. tried to find him onfacebook but couldn't :(</p>

<p>Yes, when you wear a cape, you usually carry the "amazing" title.</p>

<p>The Amazing Houdini, for example.</p>

<p>:O! Was about retire for the night (test tomorrow) when I checked the board. :OMG: He was wearing a cape, Heather? Who is this creature of the Yale libraries who speaks of Bacchus the wine god? I must meet him. And was no one else in the library? How come no one saw him smoking up a storm? Well, I may end up withdrawing my ED application, too, after this. I'm ready to go storm the Yale libraries. Would it be possible to coax the IM address out of you?</p>

<p>pretty pretty pretty please?</p>

<p>Straight gay men are so difficult to come by. Heather? Are you there?</p>

<p>what r u talkin about heather? bachus the what? no...no im for you. he's mine. sorry :(</p>

<p>I would say call them and see what they say about it without telling them who you are. That way, you can make your decision on the way they handle it. Some schools might say it's no big deal until you're accepted and it might bother others that you had to change your mind. You might not want to let them on to that fact until you're sure because even if they LET you change to RD, they might make a note of it that you weren't committed enough to stick with ED, etc etc etc..</p>

<p>heather, im the hot yalie librarian...call me</p>

<p>Bacchus, as in Dionysus, the God of Wine (and a few other things) in Roman and Greek mythology.</p>

<p>Glycerine, you sound mighty desperate.</p>

<p>lol im jking of course, ive already got me a certain special someone</p>