College Lifestyle

<p>Hey everyone, I am applying to Harvard, Stanford, MIT, Princeton, Duke, Northwestern, Michigan, Berkeley, and I clearly want a very good education out of my tertiary studies, if I get in (which is doubtful). However, in the case that I do, I was just wondering what is lifestyle like on these campuses... I am a very outgoing person and I like to go the beach, to parties with friends, in fact most of my group of friends are good at sports but rather unintelligent, some smoke pot from time-to-time others do heavier stuff (though I have never and will never do drugs). I have a similar have-a-good-time personality like them, but I also know what my dreams/aspirations are and am motivated towards achieving them.</p>

<p>So anyways, I dont think if I did get into a really prestigious university that I could cope with 4 years of 'nerdy' parties, and the social life that goes along with that.... I have read on here that at there are intelligent girls, all the while there are Duke girls who will sunbathe on campus (i am guy btw); that is the community I am looking to attend. On that note, I was just wondering which of those universities I mentioned above have that kind of campus lifestyle... From reading MITblogs I have gotten the impression that the social life at MIT is very bleak and the people there are like the typical nerdy people at my school who have parties with orange juice...</p>

<p>Any opinions are greatly appreciated :)</p>

<p>You've gotten that from the MIT blogs? hmmmm
well even if you don't like the social life presented at the campus you must remeber that it's located in Cambridge. Across from Boston where I doubt you cant find atleast one place with parties you like</p>

<p>I have visited alot of schools in my life, and interestingly I have spent alot of time at most of the colleges on your list. This might be the least PC post I have had on CC, but helping you out honestly seems worth losing a little credibility.</p>

<p>Harvard: Not much fun, way too much angst. Everyone seems out to prove themselves or become even more elitist (like going to Harvard isn't enough.) My friends who went there love the prestige, I am not sure they love Harvard at all. Worth applying though, its a powerhouse.</p>

<p>Stanford: Fun but not as amazing as I though. The campus is pretty spread out. I thought it would be better, but the party scene was cool though and the kids were cool. Just being in California is cool. Totally worth applying.</p>

<p>MIT: Nerdy kids who think they are fun but honestly its depressing. The girls are not cool. Who cares if Boston has clubs. Personally I would want to party with kids I go to school with, and truthfully I wouldnt go there for anything. Prestige isn't worth losing the best four years of your life. </p>

<p>Princeton: Lots of kids who party, but whereas harvard has an intellectual elistism, here an annoying "whiteboy" rich kid elitism exists. But truthfully the eating clubs are pretty fun and there are plenty of kids who are laid back and have a good time. Totally worth applying.</p>

<p>Duke: Same as princeton except replace elitism with jockiness. The community atmosphere is there and girls do sunbathe on the greens. Its a big campus though, so it seems decentralized. Overall a fun place and totally worth applying.</p>

<p>Northwestern: Lots of parties and cool people, but people ride on shuttle busses and the community isn't as tight as Duke or many of the other top schools. Its Worth applying.</p>

<p>Michigan: Huge state school, fun campus, ann arbor is cool but honestly its a little big. Great safety.</p>

<p>Berkeley: Never been there.</p>

<p>You are missing some of the most "not nerdy" top schools and some of the best college experiences out there for a kid like you.</p>

<p>UNC: Could not be more fun. Have been there alot and compared to places like Michigan and UCLA there is no comparison. There is a (personally) annoying NC- way to preppy frat - contingent, but there are scores of cool people to compensate. Honestly, the school is amazing for a big school. Oh yeah, it also has one of the best male/ female ratios anywhere (if you are a guy, which you are). Their main strip, Franklin street, is raging on Sunday. Its that much fun.</p>

<p>Dartmouth: Of the top schools it could not be more fun. There are parties every weekend, people who smoke and ski, and in the summer those people jump in rivers. The place has a big weekend EVERY quarter. In the fall freshmen run around the HUGE bonfire for homecoming, in the winter they have winter carnival with a "polar swim", in the spring "Green Key" has bands and open containers, in the summer "Tubestock" has hundreds of kids on inner tubes drinking in the amazingly beautiful connectcut. On the weekends the streets are lined with people on party circuits, and girls make out on the dance floor like its a bad habit. Not to mention everyone goes abroad and sophomore summer is the time of your life. I cannot imagine a better college experience. A hidden gem, once someone vists for a real weekend they are always sold on it immediately.</p>

<p>Brown: Its harvard without the elitism and more parties, and its way too overlooked these days. Lots of amazingly cool kids. Thayer street is amazing, its hip and fun. The bar scene is great, the off campus party scene is even better. Tons of pretty girls. I don't know anyone who didn't love it. Way too many cool people and way too great an atmosphere to not apply.</p>

<p>And finally, there are the schools to avoid in my opinion for someone who not only wants a great education, but also wants the best four years of their life:
Columbia, Chicago, MIT, Swarthmore, Haverford.</p>

<p>wow slipper thanks for that, it really helped..</p>

<p>Do you think that schools like Stanford and Duke who have extremely good athletic programs attract a more diverse community? I know you said Duke is fun, and I expected that, but at the same time I thought Stanford, Harvard and Princeton (i know you said its a great community) would be similarly diverse, again because of athletics. Don't get me wrong though, I am looking forward to 4 years of hard study, but I do not want it to be purely that; i am sure you know what I mean though from your post.</p>

<p>You touched on the fact that if you live on a suburban campus like MIT you can go into Boston, perhaps to go clubbing or whatever, but does the academic schedule allow for that? I've noticed (again from MITblogs) students there have a VERY heavy workload...</p>

<p>It sounds like you are from California? If that is the case and you go to a school in the NE, you will find the lifestyle a lot different. You will definitely not see much hanging out at the beaches or girls sunbathing. Winter comes early and, depending on your perspective, it lingers into May. I doubt that "nerdy parties" will adequately describe the change in lifestyle which you will encounter.</p>

<p>Out of the Ivies --
Princeton
Dartmouth
Penn</p>

<p>Other 'Fun' Elites --
Boston College
Duke
Lehigh
North Carolina
UVA
Vandy</p>

<p>If you like the beach, UCLA is certainly a good option for a name brand school.</p>

<p>II do love the beach, perhaps because I'm from Australia (I do wish I was from Cali though!), however that isn't exactly what I'm referring to. Given that when I attend university I will be 18, I want to be able to enjoy the freedom that I will have being of a legal age... In other words I want to be able to go out with friends, and do things that suit my fun-seeking personality....</p>

<p>On that note, from what I've gathered it seems like Princeton has a diverse student body, in the sense that it is an intellectually stimulating university all the while being a place where people like to enjoy themselves. I don't know why, but I was also under the impression that Divi 1 NCAA schools like Stanford and Harvard would also be in the same boat. </p>

<p>Anyway, thank you all for your help :)</p>

<p>Vrum, I think althetics doesnt have the importance in terms of a "fun environment" you think it does.</p>

<p>How about Johns Hopkins?</p>

<p>Johns Hopkins - My roommate went there and a best friend from high school. From what I gather, its a college with two worlds. Jock lacrosse players and frat guys or kids who never leave the library. Also, there is sort of an international rich kid scene, but its a subculture. It doesn't seem to be too cohesive of a community and the people I know don't seem to have too much love for it. Unless you have a particular program you want, it doesnt compare to many other top schools in terms of quality of life.</p>

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From reading MITblogs I have gotten the impression that the social life at MIT is very bleak and the people there are like the typical nerdy people at my school who have parties with orange juice...

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<p>Um, ouch. </p>

<p>Anyway, MIT has twenty-six fraternities and five sororities. Plenty of traditional college drunken debauchery goes on every weekend at MIT. (All my cheerleading friends were talking today at practice about all the crazy drunken Halloween parties they went to over the weekend.)</p>

<p>Everyone at MIT makes their own decisions as to how hardcore they're going to be about school, how much partying is important to them, and how "nerdy" they want their social environment to be. It's definitely possible to choose a completely non-nerdy environment (Baker House dorm comes to mind) and party like crazy every weekend. It's just that some people don't want that path.</p>

<p>Northwestern is definitely a fun place to be...it's never hard to find a party on a weekend (and often on weeknights as well), but there's also plenty of other stuff to do...we have lots of school spirit, lots of traditions(Dillo Day, 30-hour Dance Marathon for charity), and lots of amazing people. Everyone is very intelligent and extremely motivated, but also very laid-back. We definitely know how to work...and how to have fun. :)</p>

<p>One of the big party institutions here are the "theatre parties"...a theatre/acappella group will charge money to get in (usually about $3-5, and unlimited food/drinks once you're in) which they then use to put up their productions...quite a nice fundraiser! There are also frat parties, and people getting together in dorms...</p>

<p>Also, Chicago is RIGHT THERE. Good times.</p>

<p>Some peopel at JHU go grocery shopping for fun. Now that's what I call a good time!</p>

<p>I think the thing with MIT and JHU is that there are people who party, but there are many many who don't. Whereas places like Dartmouth, Duke, Princeton, and Brown being fun and laid back is sort of the overall culture (and with it comes strong communities), places like MIT and JHU tend to create rifts within the student body between kids who never leave the library and those who want to party. Direct quote from my friend who went to JHU, "I hated 90% of people at that school."</p>

<p>Vrumchev, if you want to pursue the activities you describe, "unhindered", perhaps you should look elsewhere - legal drinking age in the States is 21, so all this college fun is basically illicit.</p>

<p>oh my... I never said I wanted to drink... I am just interested to see which campus is more light-hearted when it comes to lifestyle. And anyway, i know that the legal drinking age being 21 affects college students profoundly, for I'm downright sure that you never see alcohol at university.. apart from in your senior year, of course, when you are 22....</p>

<p>That is sarcasm, right? Drinking starts at orientation at most schools. I have NEVER seen the "drinking age" really prevent first years from drinking ANYWHERE. Some of these "parental" comments are hilarious in their lack of true experience.</p>

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Given that when I attend university I will be 18, I want to be able to enjoy the freedom that I will have being of a legal age...

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<p>Believe me Slipper, I know what goes on, I'm not that old. "Legal age" usually means one thing - drinking - and it would be legal in just about any other country. The "freedom" to drink here though, is not true freedom, no matter how widespread drinking is. And, I was being sarcastic, by the way.</p>

<p>Sorry, I wasn't sure.</p>

<p>The drinking age creates a slight "hinderance", but one that is easily overcome.</p>