<p>Idk about you all but girls I’ve met (don’t know about dudes) who have bfs back home seem to be pretty loyal to them in my school despite the saying that it’s college and that long-term relationships won’t/don’t work…</p>
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<p>I think men are more manipulative than women-girls are just more open about things. We, as men, play a lot more games and pull more power plays than women. You see it in hazing, trash-talking, etc. But somehow women are more “complicated.”</p>
<p>I as a man agree that we men are more manipulative but I disagree completely that women-girls are more open minded. Also agree that they are more complicated</p>
<p>I don’t think women are necessarily more complicated, I think they just appear that way because women have more common sense (making men easier to figure out). :p</p>
<p>As someone who’s dated both men and women, I can tell you that they are both a pain in the a**.</p>
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That’s bullocks. What’s complicated is asking lose-lose questions like whether those pants make you look fat.</p>
<p>i think it’s complicated because two people are trying figure each other out, but at the same time keep some things a mystery.</p>
<p>Long term relationships =/= “mature”.</p>
<p>Idk. I’m kind of weird. I dont mind hooking up but it’s weird cause I’ll only do it with girls that I like and could potentially see as girlfriends. Which kind of defeats the point of hooking up cause itll just be awkward afterwards, and if Im looking to score Ill actually be the one to say **** this im going home if the girls a skank. Sometimes I think I have issues.</p>
<p>hm I agree with pandem. I have a friend that is constantly involved in some sort of long term relationship or another… and she and her guys are not always (or usually :P) mature.<br>
Personally, well… .that doesn’t really work, because you can’t simply define yourself as ‘mature’. But I think if your suited to long term relationships they will find you. They are certainly less common that hookups, because many are coming to college with more of a “work and party” mentality. So hookups more common, relationships still possible is my answer I guess!</p>
<p>Depends if you’re smart enough to pick out someone who is.</p>