I will play the game. Background. D22. We are from the Philadelphia area. D was not interested in going to a school in the Philadelphia area. She is going to play soccer in college. Her range was mid major DI to above-average DIII. That mostly changed to low end D1 to average DIII after the dust settled from Covid when many students opted to stay an extra year. At the beginning of the process, she wanted to major in pre-med but wanted the option to major in engineering. In the last six months she started to lean towards engineering which we did not see coming. D preferred a city campus, was okay with suburban and was not a fan rural. She was not a stickler regarding the size of the school. She is eligible for tuition exchange which played a large factor in the search. We did not look at schools which were not part of the tuition exchange program. D was not too concerned with really picking apart or strenuously comparing the academic reputation of the schools even though she has relatively strong stats. Despite her preferences, we took her to see some schools on rural campuses and some schools that did not have engineering or a 3 + 2 program since she was not leaning that way throughout most of the process.
NJ/NY
Drew - Moved up. It was a beautiful campus that we all liked. Madison was in walking distance of the school and is a very nice town. A train station which will get you to Manhattan in 45 minutes is in town. Morristown is only a few miles away which is a larger town with more to do. It would have been a good fit for soccer. The only drawbacks were we questioned whether there would be enough to do there on the weekends and it had 3 + 2 engineering program opposed to a traditional program. This was ultimately her second choice. (we think)
Stevens Institute of Technology - Moved up very slightly. We were a little late to the game with Stevens in terms of soccer. D started shifting from pre-med towards engineering more in the fall. By the time she got on the soccer coach’s radar most of the spots were filled but he was still interested. She liked the campus and the team but something just seemed missing. The campus was a little too small for her in my opinion. (she did not complain about it though so I could be wrong) Maybe if she was more of a priority for the coach it could have been different.
Fordham - Off the list. She did not like the campus and it does not have a traditional engineering program. It was the only urban campus she did not like. The soccer coach was also losing interest by the time we got up there.
MD/DC
Goucher - Moved up. We were all very surprised with how much we liked Goucher. It is a beautiful campus with many updates throughout and plenty of room to grow. The athletic facilities could use some love. D would be one of the best players on the soccer team immediately which could be a good thing or bad thing depending on how you look at it. Towson is a cool town which is easily accessible from the campus. She applied but ultimately felt like it was not for her. She did an overnight with the soccer team and was not feeling it. Also, it does not have an engineering school which at the end became important.
McDaniel - Moved down and eventually off the list. Too rural for D. Just not the right fit.
Washington - off the list. Way, way too rural for D. Also, it felt too small to D which is the only campus she complained about in terms of size.
Loyola (MD)- Moved up but eventually off. This one was interesting. I did not really like it but D and my wife really liked it. I came away from this one perplexed. I did not like the neighborhood, felt the school was isolated and too small. Also, the athletic facilities were off campus. D and wife had no problem with any of the above and thought it was great. Ultimately, most of the soccer team’s players have stayed the extra year and there were only 3 roster spots for Fall, 2022 which led to the coach no longer being interested.
Catholic - Moved down then shot up. We visited twice. The first visit was the same day as Loyola. It was a long day and was the first time we did two schools in one day. We had a meeting with the soccer coaches which ran late and we missed the tour. We did the self-guided tour but it was not the same. Plus the weather was getting bad. D was just not into it. My wife and I thought it was a good fit so we made her go back. The second visit was a completely different story. She loved it once she was fully rested, had the tour and had the opportunity to meet with the soccer team. She liked the urban campus, the amount of activities available on campus and the fact that there is a metro station. Also, it has pre-med, engineering and it was a good fit soccer wise. Honestly, at the end of the day it was the only school we saw which had everything that she was seeking (and worked) which we are grateful for since we really have no clue what she would have done. She will be going to Catholic in the Fall.
PA
Gettysburg - First visit moved down. Second visit moved up from where it was but still not at the top. We visited Gettysburg twice. On the first visit, it was cold and rainy. I thought it took away from the experience. D really disliked it. She thought it was too rural and too small. My wife and I thought it was very nice and urged her to go back thinking that the weather really took away from the experience. We thought the school and soccer program were a very good fit. We made sure we went up a day early and showed her around the town to try to prove that it was not completely dead and there were things to do. She liked the second visit much better but ultimately she felt it was too rural for her.
Boston
So … we were late to the game with some of the schools in Boston from a soccer standpoint which made things difficult. On the way home from the trip we hit a ton of traffic and she realized that it may be too far for her. However, while we were up there we all took the tours seriously.
BU - moved up. BU had light interest in D for soccer. She had the stats to get admitted (we think) but it was also a longshot for her to receive the tuition exchange. It was a bit of an all-around reach. However, we all loved it. It was truly a great place in a great location. However, she ultimately got caught up in the numbers crunch and she was not offered a roster spot by the soccer team.
Endicott - moved way up. We really did not know what to expect because we did not know a lot about the school. We were all impressed by the beauty of this campus. The beaches were so cool and the whole place was picturesque. D came on to the scene late with Endicott from a soccer perspective and the coaches were not all that interested in her unless she came back for the ID clinic that D already had a conflict for. I believe the engineering program is new or is starting next year which also gave her some pause. Also, it is another 45 minutes from Boston which was another 45 minutes from home.
Wheaton - Moved Down. This school was very nice but just was not a fit. Also, we were behind in the recruiting process. Ultimately, D did not see the point of going to Wheaton over Drew. Whether or not that is fair I do not know but she felt that way. She felt they were very similar and Drew was much closer to home and she was a great fit for its soccer team. If we lived closer to Boston we would have liked it more.
Wentworth- Moved up. My wife did not like it at all. My D surprisingly liked it. We think she mostly liked the location of the campus and the fact that she would be one of the best players on the soccer team immediately.
WPI - Moved down. D just did not feel like it was for her. Also, like Endicott and Wheaton, she was way behind in the recruiting process. Wheaton and WPI were the 4th and 5th school D saw in three days so we feel like she may have been over it by that point.
This was fun recapping. I hope this is of interest or assistance to someone.